Why won't my dog listen to me?

The reasons for this are numerous, ranging from just an age related phase, not adequate training, fear, or just simple distraction issues. The first step a frustrated owner should take is to try to assess WHY their dog is not taking a command, as the solution differs for each reason.

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How do you discipline a dog that won't listen?

Disciplinary methods that are considered to be positive and beneficial are:
  1. Time-outs.
  2. Using your voice to put a stop to unwanted behavior, rather than hitting your dog.
  3. Taking their toys away.
  4. Avoiding giving your dog attention when they misbehave.

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Why does my dog purposely not listen to me?

It simply comes down to the fact that your dog does not have the level of obedience necessary. He has learned to ignore you and had not learned to default to your guidance when overly distracted. Most dogs learn to ignore their owner's command, pay little attention to where their owner is or what their owner is saying.

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Why is my dog so stubborn and doesn't listen?

When a dog doesn't listen to or follow commands, it's not typically because he is hardheaded or untrainable. The problem is often that normal dog behaviors simply don't conform to human standards of good manners, and changing behavior that comes naturally to a dog can take time and effort.

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What to do if dog ignores command?

If your dog ignores you, don't reel them in with the leash. Instead, use it to walk yourself closer until your dog comes to you. You want it to be their choice to come when called, not something you force them to do.

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WHY YOUR DOG DOESN'T LISTEN TO YOU... AND HOW YOU CAN FIX IT

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What dog behavior should not be ignored?

When You Shouldn't Ignore Your Dog's Bad Behavior. There are some behaviors you don't want to ignore, such as puppy nipping or pulling on leash. Any behavior that feels good to your dog, is naturally calming (such as licking or chewing), or is fun to do is not likely to go away when ignored.

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How do you know if your dog doesn't respect you?

The Top Behaviors and Signs Your Dog Doesn't Like You
  1. They cower or hide when you're around.
  2. They tuck their tail between their legs when they see you (and notably don't wag their tail)
  3. Their body stiffens, or fur stands up in your presence.
  4. They flatten their ears or arch their backs around you.

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How do I stop my dog misbehaving for attention?

Here's how to do that.
  1. Ignore unwanted behaviors. This can be very challenging to do. ...
  2. Reward desirable alternative behaviors. ...
  3. Add (or increase) environmental enrichment. ...
  4. Establish consistent expectations. ...
  5. Avoid your dog during times that trigger the unwanted behavior.

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How do you train a badly behaved dog?

Change behavior through positive reinforcement

When your pet dog shows undesirable behavior traits, you can do one of 3 things to practice positive reinforcement and retrain the behavior: redirect him. ignore him. give him a time-out (i.e. restrict his freedom for a time)

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What age are dogs most defiant?

Puberty (6 to 9 months): Random defiance, running off for hours, ignoring direction: Don't take any of your pup's frustrating behavior personally. Your puppy must challenge you in order to grow up. Through this age-appropriate behavior, she's challenging your authority to ensure that she can trust your judgment.

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Should you yell at your dog?

Yelling also can make your dog less likely to respond to your commands, which makes you more frustrated and likely to yell. New research and most dog-training experts recommend you stop yelling at your dog and instead use a soft, quiet voice when you talk to your dog.

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Why is my well behaved dog misbehaving?

Sometimes, changes in your lifestyle, such as your new working schedule, moving to a new home, the arrival of a new baby or a new pet, may disturb their sense of safety. Be patient and help your dog adapt to change by keeping a consistent routine.

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How do you tell a dog not to do something?

A timeout acts as a negative consequence for a behavior and is one of the best ways to let your dog know you don't appreciate something they did.
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This can be done progressively by:
  1. turning your head to the side and withdrawing eye contact;
  2. turning your back to your dog;
  3. walking away/leaving the room.

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How do you break a dog's attitude?

Dogs, like people, respond best to positive reinforcement. Trying to curb your dog's more aggressive behaviors by rewarding only positive behaviors can help train those aggressive instincts away. If he is calm for a while or behaves well during an encounter with guests or other dogs, reward him with a treat.

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How do I show dominance over my dog?

These “training” techniques include the use of:
  1. Alpha rolls (rolling a dog onto his back and pinning him to the ground to show him “who's boss”)
  2. Grabbing his muzzle and holding it tightly.
  3. Shaking him by the scruff of the neck.
  4. Cuffing him under the chin.
  5. Aversive tools such as choke, prong, or shock collars for training.

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Do dogs know when you insult them?

Science proves that dogs understand the emotional aspect associated with the insult based on tone, and body language, not necessarily the insult itself. As much as we'd all love to have a conversation with our dog, (and have them understand that by “no peeing”, we mean no peeing) that's just not the case.

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Can a dog love you but not respect you?

Do they bolt out the door ahead of you when it's time to go for a walk? If so, your dog may love you, but they don't respect you as their leader. And if they don't trust you, it could lead to behavioral issues, make training challenging and increase their fear, or anxiety.

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Do dogs deliberately ignore me?

The reasons your dog may not be listening might be medical in nature, but most often, if your dog will not come to you or ignores you completely, it is because of a training or a behavioral issue. Once you feel you have ruled out potential illness, training and conditioning your dog will improve his recall ability.

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How do you respond to a misbehaving dog?

If you catch your puppy misbehaving, try a loud noise such as clapping your hands or a loud "uh-uh" or a sharp “off”. Remember, reprimands need to occur while the behavior is happening, preferably just as it begins, and never after.

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Do dogs go through a rebellious stage?

Like humans, dogs go through a rebellious “teenager” phase (around 5 months to 18 months). During this time, they'll often test their owners, seeing what they can get away with. Being firm and consistent with your training will help establish boundaries. And be patient!

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At what age do dogs calm down?

When do puppies start to calm down? Most puppies start to calm down as they approach their maturity age, which is usually around 12 months, but for larger breeds it can be more likely to occur between 18 months and 2 years.

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Why is my dog so disobedient?

Most cases however, are simply overly energetic dogs that may not be getting sufficient exercise and routine to their day, or who are being accidentally rewarded when they act excitedly (see Play and Exercise and Using Enrichment, Predictability, and Scheduling to Train Your Dog).

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Do dogs remember when you scold them?

Learned Behavior

In the study, dogs acted guilty when scolded by their owners, regardless of whether they had actually committed the act for which they were being scolded. Based on this, it seems likely that dogs learn quickly that when pet parents unhappy with them, they can placate their humans by looking sad.

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Do dogs remember when you get mad at them?

Your dog will know when you are mad.

Dogs hate to disappoint and can sense the emotions and body language that comes with an upset "parent". When you are upset with your dog and he gives you those "sweet puppy dog eyes" he knows that you are upset and is hoping to change things.

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