Some guys go the "classic" route with names like "angel," "darling," and "sweetheart"; some prefer food-inspired nicknames, like "cookie" and "cupcake"; and some straight-up worship their partners with loving names like "queen," "goddess," and "light of my life."
Pumpkin, peanut, bubby, baby, babe, bae, honey, darling, sugar, sweetie, honeybunch… English is packed full of fun, creative, and cute nicknames to call your loved ones.
Think of a nickname that playfully mocks something about her—for instance, if she's a big reader, you can make fun of her reading habits by calling her Little Miss Word Nerd. Come up with a nickname that puns on her actual name: for instance, if her name is Catherine, try Kitty Cat.
In some cases, it can also be playful, but it's usually a serious term of affection. Girls enjoy the nickname because it makes them feel as though they're desired, respected, and connected.
One of the most important characteristics that most women seek is modesty. Outspokenness, charity, and honesty are further feminine appeal traits that are always observed, along with humility. Nothing appeals to a woman more than a man with a great sense of self.
Nicknames are a great way to express affection and familiarity. "Cutie" or Good-looking" are great nicknames when flirting, while names like "Babe" or "Honey" are better for committed relationships.
Women love being a tease and secretly wish men would understand that and not be confused about what they want or what they're trying to do. Being a tease for a man a woman is interested in is nothing new and has been an added game play since 'the chase' was invented.
When a man is honest and trustworthy, he instantly becomes more appealing and desirable to a woman. If he's dependable, truthful, genuine, and speaks from the heart, he's a guy who is worth pursuing, as people can take him at his word. "Trust and trustworthiness allow relationships to deepen," says Degges-White.
If you're on friendly terms with your crush, don't be afraid of teasing them a little as a way of flirting. Make sure that they know you're teasing, being ironic, or sarcastic by adding in an emoji or an LOL—over text, it can be hard to tell whether or not someone's being serious.
To let him know you're actually interested—and not just looking around the room—hold the eye contact for a few seconds. Count to three in your head and then look away. And if you're feeling extra bold, quickly look back for just one more second.
Whether you showed off your best flirting skills from the jump or started out as friends, one of the best ways to establish your new dynamic is to give your crush an adorably unique nickname.
