It's okay. It doesn't make you a negative person, as long as you understand why and how to go about not liking them in a productive, mostly innocuous way. Dealing amicably with people we don't like is part of adult life.
Some common synonyms of hate are abhor, abominate, detest, and loathe. While all these words mean "to feel strong aversion or intense dislike for," hate implies an emotional aversion often coupled with enmity or malice.
How to act when someone likes you but you don t like them back?
How to deal when a friend has an unrequited crush on you
Don't lead them on. It's nice when someone has a crush on you. ...
Be kind, but clear. It's necessary to let your pal know you don't have feelings for them, but it's just as important to be sensitive about how you do it. ...
For many people who are holding onto someone who doesn't love them, they are doing so because they are scared. They are scared of how their person will react if they leave. They are scared of the words of anger, that they might hear. They are afraid things might get physical.
People might begin to hate another person or group when they: Feel envy or want what the other person has. They may consider it unfair that someone has what they lack. Have contempt for another person or believe them to be inferior.
There's a quote by an unknown author: “A person hates you for one of three reasons: 1) They want to be you 2) They hate themselves 3) They see you as a threat.” People that are genuinely comfortable with themselves don't desire to be anyone else.
How do you know if someone doesn't like you as a friend?
While a friend might use relaxed language, share a few jokes, or otherwise interact in a light-hearted manner, a person that doesn't consider you their friend may sound more official or formal, giving clipped responses when you meet up with them in person or otherwise engage them in conversation.
The most direct way of dealing with the problem is to ask them what their problem with you is if they have not already made it clear. If it is their own personal problem, tell them to seek help and leave you out of it. It is important to remember that hurt people hurt people.
Key points. Simultaneously feeling attraction and hate often stems from transferring a feeling one has for one person onto another. Attraction fused with hate may be fueled by fears of rejection, past relationship trauma, social competition, or other insecurities.
Almost always, when we instinctively dislike someone, they're a perceived pothole we're quickly trying to avoid. They represent a threat to us. Hatred is a defense mechanism of the mind to protect us from perceived or actual threats.
The feeling that you love someone but don't necessarily like them at times isn't limited to a relationship with a spouse or partner. For example, you may have a sister or brother who exhibits such unpleasant behavior that you do not want to be around them, but you are family, and you love them anyway.
