Proper bidet etiquette involves using it for its intended purpose (personal hygiene after using the toilet), adjusting settings for comfort (low pressure, warm water), cleaning thoroughly (front-to-back for vulva), and leaving it clean for the next user by drying off (pat with minimal toilet paper, dedicated towel, or air dryer) and resetting controls, ensuring you don't use it as a sink or wash hands in it.
Some people sit, others straddle the bidet and hover. Turn on the faucet, test the water with your hand, and set a mild flow. Then position your body so the water reaches the genital and anal areas you want to clean. Move your hips slightly to rinse fully.
You don't 'wipe' when you use a bidet. You wash and then dry, rather than wipe.
Not all countries or cultures use toilet paper to wipe their bums. This can be because of cultures that have traditionally used alternatives to toilet paper and therefore never really used it or lack of access to toilet paper.
Experts believe that it's healthy to poop from three times each day up to three times each week. This is called the "three and three rule." If you poop less than three times per week, it could be a sign of constipation, and if you poop more than three times each day, you may have diarrhea.
Wiping Front to Back
If you don't have any physical limitations preventing you from reaching around your body to wipe from front to back, it's generally considered the safer route to go. You'll be moving feces away from your more delicate parts, lowering the risk of infection.
A common curiosity is, “Do you flush first then use a bidet?” For solid waste, it's usually recommended to flush first, then rinse with water. This minimizes splashes and makes cleaning easier.
Bidets are more hygienic.
Bidets allow for nearly hands-free cleaning of the genitals and anus after toileting or intimacy. Water is used to thoroughly clean skin surfaces and crevices rather than wiping, which can lead to the spread of fecal matter and bacteria.
Eating any food while on the toilet is forbidden. After defecating, the anus must be washed with water using the left hand, or an odd number of smooth stones or pebbles called jamrah or hijaarah (Sahih Al-Bukhari 161, Book 4, Hadith 27). Many jurists agree that toilet paper suffices in place of these stones.
Cleaning the anus after defecation using the bidets contributes to hand hygiene and local comfort, and it may be effective against constipation. However, excessive bidet use potentially causes anal pruritus and anal incontinence (AI).
A: The bidet has separate hot and cold water inputs. Usually you'd connect the hot water supply from the hot water output under the sink near the toilet. If for some reason there's no available hot water, you can just leave it unplugged and cover the hot water input with the screw-on cap that comes with the product.
Doctors often point out that bidets provide superior cleanliness compared to toilet paper. Bidets remove waste more effectively and reduce the chance of bacteria spreading. Environmentally Friendly: Reducing the use of toilet paper conserves resources and lowers household waste, making bidets an eco-friendly option.
With a built-in dryer: You can skip wiping entirely and let the air dryer finish the job. Without a dryer: Most people do a quick pat-dry with toilet paper or a dedicated towel. Some also choose to wipe before using the bidet to minimize mess, especially if the bidet's water pressure is gentle.
Major factors to consider when determining if a bidet will fully clean you is your size, weight, and how you are positioned/seated on your bidet. The larger the user, height and weight wise, the more likely you will have to use a couple sheets of toilet paper after using your bidet to fully clean yourself.
This can happen due to dietary issues, dehydration, or even stress. But often, it ties back to how well your muscles are functioning. Pelvic Floor Dysfunction: Your pelvic floor muscles play a crucial role in bowel movements. These muscles need to relax to allow for a complete evacuation.
Post-defecation cleansing is rarely discussed academically, partly due to the social taboo surrounding it. The scientific objective of post-defecation cleansing is to prevent exposure to pathogens. The process of post-defecation cleansing often involves washing the anus and inner part of the buttocks with water.
In many Amish homes, rags are a common toilet paper alternative. These rags are typically old clothes that have been worn out. After simple processing, they become practical cleaning tools.
Cultural Differences in Toilet Paper Usage
In Asia, bidets are a popular alternative to toilet paper. In the Middle East, water is used for personal hygiene after using the toilet. In Africa, the usage of toilet paper is not as common and many people resort to alternatives such as wiping with water or cloths.