The messenger of Allah said: "Indeed from the teachings of the first prophets which has reached you is, 'If you do not have shyness, then do as you please."
The Prophet (SallAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) encouraged this attitude, as is seen in a number of ahadith, and counted it as pure goodness both for the one who possesses this virtue and for the society in which he lives. According to a report given by Muslim, he (SallAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) said: “Shyness is all good.”
The Hadith considers shyness as a quality or branch of faith. In some cultures shyness is seen in a negative light, but in Islamic culture it is given such importance that the Prophet singles it out from among more than sixty qualities.
What about when some people are with others?' He said: 'If you are able to not let anyone see it then do not let them see it.'" He said: "I said: 'O Prophet of Allah! What about when one of us is alone?' He said: 'Allah is more deserving of being shy from Him than the people.'"
So the Prophet (ﷺ) said: “Leave him alone for indeed shyness is from Imān.” So this proves that Al-Hayā' is a branch of Imān and that it is an action of the heart, and it is evidence that the actions of the heart enter into [the definition of] Imān.
Shyness of the Prophet Moosa (peace be upon him) – Sahih Bukhari.
Shyness is a trait that can be a result of environmental factors. These factors can stem from emotional abuse, ridicule and other forms of child abuse, but not always. Some shyness is inherited.
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In Islam, silence is considered to be one of the first stages of worship. One of the great leaders in Islam, Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib, noted that someone who speaks less often actually embodies more wisdom. According to Talib's teachings, when you're quiet, you avoid unnecessary talk that might lead to lying.
Shyness is partly a result of genes a person has inherited. It's also influenced by behaviors they've learned, the ways people have reacted to their shyness, and life experiences they've had. Genetics. Our genes determine our physical traits, like height, eye color, skin color, and body type.
Shyness causes you to keep others at a distance and avoid social situations. It can make you feel self-conscious or insecure during social interactions with others. You might become dizzy, sweaty, feel your stomach do somersaults, stumble over your words, or all of the above.
When shyness is not extreme, it can make you appear more approachable to others. Shyness, and the modesty and self-effacing nature that go with it, are rarely threatening to others and may allow people to feel more comfortable around you.
Allah has said very clearly in the Quran that the only way to fight anxiety is to have the remembrance of Allah and have faith in Him, worship Him and stay close to Him. There are also many different other ways to release anxiety that Allah has spoken of in the Quran, like intake of honey and milk.
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Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Allah is merciful, conscientious, and generous. He would be shy for His servant to raise his hands to Him and then not place any goodness in either of them.”
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Shyness doesn't always go away over time, but children can learn to be more confident and comfortable interacting with other people.
For one thing, some people are born with “high-reactive” temperaments that predispose them to both shyness and introversion. Also, a shy person may become more introverted over time; since social life is painful, she is motivated to discover the pleasures of solitude and other minimally social environments.
synonyms: diffident, timid, unsure.