"Asperger's" (now part of Autism Spectrum Disorder or ASD) involves personality traits like intense focus on special interests, rigid routines, sensory sensitivities (lights, sounds), literal thinking, difficulty with social cues, blunt communication, and struggles with small talk, often accompanied by strong verbal skills but unusual speech patterns and challenges with non-verbal communication, leading to social misunderstandings despite potentially deep feelings.
They are more “self-centered than selfish,"4 with an attitude towards others that may range from indifference to deep concern, but is rarely malicious. Because people with Asperger's are intelligent but “lack empathy," fears have sometimes been raised that they may be sociopathic.
Children with high-functioning autism are likely to exhibit a wide range of symptoms in early childhood, including:
Clumsy, uncoordinated movements, including difficulty with handwriting. Difficulty managing emotions, sometimes leading to verbal or behavioral outbursts, self-injurious behaviors, or tantrums. Not understanding other peoples' feelings or perspectives. Hypersensitivity to lights, sounds, and textures.
Computer science is a good choice because it is very likely that many of the best programmers have either Asperger's syndrome or some of its traits. Other good majors are: accounting, engineering, library science, and art with an emphasis on commercial art and drafting.
Research tells us that autism tends to run in families, and a meta-analysis of 7 twin studies claim that 60 to 90% of the risk of autism comes from your genome. If you have a child with autism, you are more likely to have another autistic child. Your other family members are also more likely to have a child with ASD.
Individuals with Asperger's Syndrome typically exhibit exceptional memory, strong work ethic, and unique problem-solving abilities. Additionally, their loyalty, honesty, and acute sensitivity contribute positively to their interpersonal relationships and work environments.
Chinning is a form of repetitive self-stimulatory behavior (stimming) that you may notice in children or adults with autism. It involves pressing, rubbing, or holding the chin against objects, surfaces, or even hands to gain sensory input or comfort.
Children with autism may exhibit rigidity, inflexibility and certain types of repetitive behavior such as: Insistence on following a specific routine. Having difficulty accepting changes in the schedule. A strong preoccupation with a particular interest.
Many techniques are available to those who suffer from Asperger's to help them control their anger. These include learning to be self-aware of their behavior, relaxation techniques, self-talking, using visual imagery, and attending anger management classes or cognitive behavioral therapy.
People with Asperger's can miss social cues that can be obvious to someone that doesn't have the disorder, like understanding what body language is, or even understanding facial expressions.
Giving Honest, Unfiltered Compliments. While neurotypical flirting often involves playful teasing or indirect hints, autistic individuals may be more straightforward in their compliments. They might say something like, “I really like the way you talk about history” or “You have a nice voice” without any hidden meaning.
There aren't any drugs approved by the FDA to specifically treat Asperger's or autism spectrum disorder. But some medications can help with related symptoms such as depression and anxiety. Your doctor may prescribe some of these: Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs)
Dan Aykroyd, the famous actor and comedian renowned for his roles in films like Ghostbusters, has had a remarkable journey with Asperger's syndrome.
Autistic strengths
It might be hard for the child (or adult) with autism to walk up to another person and start talking to them. They might not like talking that much and prefer to keep to themselves. On the other hand, some people with autism might overshare and might not know when to let the other person have a turn to talk.
Additionally, inherited genetic variations contribute greatly. Research shows that both mothers and fathers can carry autism-related gene variants. Some of these are common variants that increase the risk of autism, while others are rare mutations causing more severe effects.
Behavioral approaches have the most evidence for treating symptoms of ASD. They have become widely accepted among educators and healthcare professionals and are used in many schools and treatment clinics. A notable behavioral treatment for people with ASD is called applied behavior analysis (ABA).
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One common expression of anger in high-functioning autism is intense emotional outbursts such as tantrums, verbal aggression, and even physical aggression. These episodes can include shouting, name-calling, hitting, slapping, or destroying objects.