The French have an undeniable reputation when it comes to love and sex. They are passionate, enticing and simply irresistible. French people have a way with words and actions that's all about love. And when it comes to displaying their fairness in bed, they are said to be absolute sex gods!
“French men pay attention to things like women wearing make-up, perfume, dressing well, and they enjoy a woman's sensuality.” This doesn't mean they expect women to be mere 'eye candy,' though. To the contrary, explains Carol: “French culture appreciates both the sensual and the intellectual."
Indeed, some 66 percent Parisian men say they've had a one night stand, compared to 50 percent of women. In fact, 44 percent of Parisian men say they've even slept with someone whose name they didn't know.
While there are many explanations for this reputation as being excellent sexual partners, it remains very subjective to say whether the reputation is justified. The French are not “technically superior” in bed, insists Perel, but “they are more comfortable in relationships …
Despite the messy reality, most French people, 68 percent, believe it's possible to remain faithful to one person for life. They remain realistic, however. About 63 percent of French believe they can love someone even if he or she has cheated.
The French have an undeniable reputation when it comes to love and sex. They are passionate, enticing and simply irresistible. French people have a way with words and actions that's all about love. And when it comes to displaying their fairness in bed, they are said to be absolute sex gods!
4 – Flirting is an Artform in France
It's in our genes and it's socially accepted in France. A Frenchwoman is expected to play her feminine side, and be “admired” for her beauty and wit among other qualities. Frenchmen like to flirt as well, even if they know very well there is no hope of it leading anywhere.
More than a tradition, it's a habit and even a reflex. Of Latin origin, the greeting kissing persists in countries where the culture of contact dominates, and this culture is deeply rooted in France. The French still greet each other by touching each other, kissing or shaking hands.
It's something most French people engage in at least once or twice a day, whether with family or friends, or with colleagues. But despite being a part of everyday life in France, la bise can be complicated. Let's talk about all things bise, and learn more about kissing in French in general.
Hugging in France
The French very rarely hug. In France, hugs are not a part of daily life. Unlike Americans, the French do not use hugging as a greeting. Instead, they kiss cheeks (faire la bise) informally and shake hands in formal settings.
The French don't say, "I love you" because they don't have a verb to express heartfelt sentiments for the people they care about. There is only the verb ", which means both "to like" and "to love".
In France, the French dating culture is much different. There's no dating freedom when you're seeing someone in France. You can't go out with other people. As soon as the first kiss happens, you're officially a couple.
Expect Lots of Flirting
But whether you're single or not, in France, there is plenty of flirting regardless of marital status. To both sides, flirting is an art form. So you're going to see it thrown around a lot.
Public displays of affection in France
People kiss acquaintances when they meet them in the street and you even shake hand with the plumber when he comes to fix your leaky pipe: the French are definitely touchy-feely. So, in Paris (and other major cities) anything goes; elsewhere, be more restrained.
That's because while it is customary for women in France to greet both men and women with a kiss on each cheek, men generally reserve la bise for close male friends or family. La bise is not just a greeting for social settings, though.
In the southeastern and eastern areas of France, it's left cheek first. In the rest of the country, it's the right. There are, however, two islands in each of these broad regions: In the blue zone, the French-speaking part of Switzerland stands out. In the red zone, Haute-Normandie is the exception.
French kissing is a little trickier than just a peck on the lips. It involves tongue, which might seem super intimidating, but don't stress about it.
Deep or French kissing, which includes touching tongues together, can also increase the risk of infection. That's because there's more potential to come in contact with the virus this way. Syphilis can be severe or fatal if untreated.
Respect is shown in verbal greetings by referring to the person as 'Madam' ('Ms') or 'Monsieur' ('Mr'). Though previously the title 'Madam' referred to a married woman and 'Mademoiselle' referred to an unwed woman, this practice is no longer commonplace.
Depending on the region where you are, the number of kisses involved in the bise will range from two to four: In Paris, as well as in some other major cities like Bordeaux and Toulouse, two kisses are the norm.
The French see beauty as accentuating natural beauty and feeling good about yourself, which helps the effortless aesthetic. Kate Kasbee of Edit writes, “French ideals of beauty are imperfect, laid-back, and undone.
France is renowned for its sensuality. In this way, erotic love is expressed healthily. This isn't something that is sordid or dirty like many other countries consider it to be. It's considered a healthy expression of love, and for that reason all intimacy is considered beautiful.
Because they feel like it
In general, staring is not considered as rude in France as in some other places. Although French mamans will tell their children that it's rude to stare (or to point) that doesn't mean that people don't do it when they grow up.