An insecure dog is unsure of his environment, lacks self-confidence, and can act aggressively towards people, even his owner. Other signs of insecurity can include a lot of yawning and panting, submissive postures, and incidences of house soiling.
There are lots of reasons a dog might lack confidence and be fearful about navigating his environment. He may have had a bad experience or even have a genetic predisposition toward being fearful or shy. In many cases, though, the dog simply was not well socialized as a puppy.
When a dog lacks confidence, they can express that in different ways. Some run away and hide with their tail between their legs; others bark and become aggressive.
The dog breeds that are more likely to have this problem are the German Shepherd, Australian Shepherd, Border Collie, Jack Russell Terrier, Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Bichon Frise, Toy Poodle, Labrador Retriever, Cocker Spaniel, and German Shorthaired Pointer.
When dogs are in pain or don't feel well, they tend to display behavioral changes, such as decreased activity or lethargy. Some sick dogs that are normally social may start to withdraw. A kind and energetic pet may begin to show snippiness or aggression.
What does insecure body language in dogs look like?
Nervous, insecure, fearful dog = Ears sideways or back, pupils dilated, tail low or tucked between legs, low body posture, tense, wants to hide, turns away, does not accept treats, lip licking, yawning, hyper vigilant, moving slowly, stalling, panting, or pacing.
Our dogs are profoundly affected by our feelings, too. They can sense when we are sad, excited or nervous. But even though many dog parents understand this, and have their dog's welfare in mind, they may not realize that they're hurting their dog's feeling unintentionally.
The kind of childhood you had, past traumas, recent experiences of failure or rejection, loneliness, social anxiety, negative beliefs about yourself, perfectionism, or having a critical parent or partner can all contribute to insecurity.
While they aren't always apparent to us, dogs demonstrate explicit behaviors that indicate when they might not like us very much or even feel downright uncomfortable and scared around us.
One thing that has been figured out is that dogs can feel rejection. They may not show it like humans do, but dogs are definitely capable of feeling rejected and unwanted. Not just by their human counterparts, either. It has been proven that dogs can feel rejection when it comes to falling in love as well.
The study of 4,000 dog owners showed that dogs who don't engage in a lot of play suffer from behavioral issues such as anxiety and aggression. Less play time also leads to an increase in whining, jumping up, and not coming when called. Scientists are beginning to agree that play is the key to a dogs happiness.
Chamomile, pet-friendly CBD oils, and melatonin are all good options for helping lower your dog's heart rate. Check with your veterinarian before giving your dog any over-the-counter supplements to ensure you're giving your dog the correct dose.
