To start with, many emotions go on when a man hurts you. Anger, frustration, disappointment, and resentment are a few of what a man feels when his woman is broken. The specific feeling a man has will depend on what caused the disagreement or fight in the first place.
It's okay to hurt and it's okay to tell someone they hurt you. You want to honor your feelings knowing it's natural and normal to feel hurt and angry too! Remember to respect yourself!
Most men who initiate breakups or hurt their partners through their actions or words do eventually experience remorse over losing their beloved. Ultimately, your man will likely realize the flaws in his behavior and actions. Men do painfully come to terms with the harsh reality that they've lost a very special lady.
If your partner does not greet you warmly or doesn't smile at you, it is one of the signs a man is hurt emotionally. If he was a warm person before and now, he doesn't even want to smile at you, your actions or words could have caused the change.
If your boyfriend has hurt you, make him feel guilty through the texts listed below: “You know how emotional I get about my insecurities, yet you made fun of them. I cannot put into words how much pain this incident has caused. I forgive you.
Finding something positive to say to show you respect them, such as: “I appreciate you trusting me with this problem.” Asking gentle, open-ended questions to better understand what they're thinking and feeling, such as: “How come?”; “What do you think about …?”; “How do you feel about …?”
Say simply “I am so sad that you're hurting.” Or “I can't imagine what you're going through.” People often foolishly say, “I understand because I had…” and go on to describe their own painful experience.
If a guy feels embarrassed about his past behavior, it is one of the positive signs a guy knows he messed up. As a responsible person, he feels ashamed about his irresponsible behavior. On top of that, he is also embarrassed that he lost the chance of having a perfect life with you by doing something stupid.
He won't want to bring it up or talk about whatever he did because he hopes you will forget about it. On the other hand, if he's done something bad and now he feels uncomfortable being around you because of all that guilt, he may lash out in other ways. He may be ruder, he may pick more fights, etc.
Guys regret losing a girl that knows her own mind and has a clear concept of own self-worth. A confident woman knows she deserves to be treated well and won't accept anything less.
Depicting their pain is as simple as describing it as it happens. For example, “her fingers hurt,” “she massaged her hurting fingers,” or “she curled her fingers unknowingly to ease the painful rigidness.” Be careful not to overdo it with too frequent mentions though.
How do you subtly tell someone they hurt your feelings?
Time it right
A bit of privacy, and somewhere neutral where you both feel comfortable, will help ease any nerves. You could ask your friend to meet you at a specific time and place for a talk, so that you don't just spring it on them. Also consider that it may come as a shock to the person.
