Stopping emotional triggers requires building self-awareness to identify what sets you off, then using techniques like deep breathing, taking physical breaks, and practicing mindfulness to pause before reacting. Long-term, reducing triggers involves understanding your history, setting healthy boundaries, managing stress (sleep, diet), and potentially seeking therapy.
What causes triggering? Triggering is often caused when something that is going on in the present reminds us, in some way, of something difficult or unpleasant that happened in the past. These can be properly traumatic events, or simply very difficult events from earlier in our lives, often from childhood.
Practical tips for daily self-regulation
Steps and strategies to tackle your worries
5 ways to gain control over your emotions
The “90-second rule,” introduced by Harvard neuroscientist Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, reveals that an emotional surge in the body lasts only about 90 seconds—unless we mentally keep it alive.
Emotional dysregulation means difficulty managing the speed, intensity, and duration of emotional reactions. In children with ADHD this often looks like a quick temper, low frustration tolerance, long recovery after upset, sudden tears or anger, and mood swings that interfere with daily functioning.
Physical signs of stress
Averaged across coders, 91.39% of all worries did not come true (91.08% for the first coder and 91.70% for the second). In other words, 8.61% of worries came true. In regard to the percentages calculated per person, the average percentage of untrue worries was 89.60% per person (SD = 13.12%; 10.4% true worries).
The Five Signs encouraged people to ask if they or their loved ones were not feeling themselves, feeling withdrawn, feeling agitated, feeling hopeless or not caring for themselves. A longtime mental health advocate, Broderick discovered the program and introduced it to New Hampshire.
Common signs and symptoms include:
If the brain continues to perceive something as dangerous, the hypothalamus releases corticotropin-releasing hormone (CRH), which travels to the pituitary gland, triggering the release of adrenocorticotropic hormone (ACTH). This hormone travels to the adrenal glands, prompting them to release cortisol.
ADHD rage, or emotional dysregulation, looks like sudden, intense, and disproportionate emotional outbursts (meltdowns or shutdowns) triggered by minor stressors, involving yelling, crying, physical reactions (stomping, clenching fists, throwing things), extreme irritability, or complete withdrawal, stemming from difficulty regulating intense feelings like anger, frustration, or sadness. It feels like a "volcanic eruption" of emotions that seem to come out of nowhere, often overwhelming the individual and disrupting daily life.
Borderline Personality Disorders (BPD)
Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by intense emotions, fear of abandonment and unstable relationships. People with BPD often experience intense anger, known as “borderline rage,” which can be disproportionate to the situation.
Try these stress management tips:
You may experience symptoms such as:
Teas for stress and anxiety relief
The #1 worst habit for anxiety isn't singular, but avoidance (procrastination), poor sleep, and negative thought patterns (like catastrophizing) are top contenders, creating vicious cycles where anxiety fuels these behaviors, and the behaviors, in turn, worsen anxiety by preventing healthy coping and creating more stress. Other significant habits include excessive caffeine, poor diet, too much screen time, and social withdrawal, all disrupting the body's ability to manage stress effectively.
The Four-Word Sleep Phrase: “This Thought Can Wait”
This simple sentence packs a surprisingly powerful punch. When you say it to yourself—gently but firmly—it creates a boundary between you and your runaway thoughts. It doesn't require solving, denying, or arguing with your brain.
The 20-minute rule for ADHD is a productivity strategy to overcome task paralysis by committing to work on a task for just 20 minutes, leveraging the brain's need for dopamine and short bursts of focus, making it easier to start and build momentum, with the option to stop or continue after the timer goes off, and it's a variation of the Pomodoro Technique, adapted for ADHD's unique challenges like time blindness. It helps by reducing overwhelm, providing a clear starting point, and creating a dopamine-boosting win, even if you only work for that short period.
This can result in tantrum-like behaviour that some compare to a metaphorical volcanic eruption. Symptoms of an ADHD meltdown include: Physical reactions like feet stomping, clenching fists, or throwing objects. Making loud noises including yelling and screaming.
Mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and borderline personality disorder disrupt emotions through changes in mood, thoughts, and behaviors. These disorders can lead to intense mood swings and emotional challenges, such as deep sadness, excessive worry, and extreme mood shifts.