When you naturally long to serve others before yourself. If you are an INFJ, ENFJ, ISFJ or ESFJ personality type, this function of extraverted Feeling is your guiding force, and the chances are good that you value harmony, peace and connection with others.
INFJ. INFJs are often seen as one of the most selfless personalities.
ISFJs ranked as having low self-acceptance according to the CPI™ tool. This may be largely because ISFJs are known for being cautious and careful, which may come across as self-doubting at times. ISFJs are also very practical and down-to-earth, and thus may not have very lofty, idealized images of themselves.
ESFJs are the 2nd most common type of personality. They feel a sense of responsibility towards others and have a tendency to get involved with people and their problems. They're the helpful kind and will go out of their way to lend a hand.
ESFJs will go down with the ship in order to protect the people they love. Helping out in their communities, giving time in service of their families, or just being there for other people are what they value most.
Personality types ENFP, ENFJ, INFJ, and INFPs are natural empaths per the MBTI Personality types. Empaths are also called Idealists & Diplomats. Highly Sensitive People belong to these MBTI types. Intuitive Feelers or Empaths are only 20% of the population.
So, who are the most popular personality types? ESFJs and ESFPs have the natural charisma and social skills that make them popular. They're usually the life of the party and people are drawn to their positive energy.
Likable People Are Good Listeners
Well-liked people know how to listen — not only are they acting curious, but they're also genuinely listening to what the person they're with is saying. They don't turn conversations around to be about themselves — they focus on the person talking.
As the most typical example of a people person, the ENFJ personality is known as the giver or protagonist.
The tendency to please is related to Dependent Personality Disorder. While the people-pleaser may not need others to do things for them, they do have a need for others, regardless. The pleasing personality is also related to the Masochistic Personality type, which also corresponds with Dependent Personality.
INFP. Simply because they have such large hearts, INFPs tend to be sensitive individuals. They possess a depth of emotion that is quite strong and occasionally overpowering. They work hard to accomplish as much good as they can because they want to change the world.
Sadly, INFPs ranked the lowest for happiness as well as the lowest for life-satisfaction. According to the third edition of the MBTI® Manual, these types also ranked second highest in dissatisfaction with their marriages and intimate relationships.
ISFJ. People who identify with the ISFJ personality type are likely ones you can confide in. ISFJs are devoted and reliable people, and according to Joseph Puglisi, CEO of Dating Iconic, their introverted, sensing, and feeling nature "makes them really good friends and partners."
ISFJs are characteristically humble and unassuming, and rarely call attention to themselves.
ESFJs and ENFJs are the most loving personality types. They are outgoing, compassionate, and emotional people who love to express their feelings. They often show their love through physical affection, words of affirmation, and acts of service.
ESFPs and ESTPs and Cleanliness:
ESFPs and ESTPs are extremely detail-conscious people. They take in their surroundings fully and enjoy aesthetically pleasing environments. While they hate mundane, routine chores, they also despise mess, clutter, and ugliness in their surroundings.
1. ESFJ. People who fit the ESFJ personality type can usually be recognized by their big hearts and kindly manner. ESFJs are warm and welcoming and their love of tradition means they value good old-fashioned manners highly.
INFP at a glance
People with INFP preferences tend to be creative problem solvers. They are often deeply thoughtful, curious, and imaginative learners. They're incredibly motivated by their own core values—and equally curious about the values of others. In general, they strive for and value continuous personal growth.
ENFJs are known for searching for the goodness in others, and for being able to summon a powerful level of compassion, which means that even when their partner falls short, their acceptance and love is still unwavering. Expressive, nurturing, and supportive, ENFJs love hard because it's the only way they know how.
The INFJ personality type is the undisputed top 1 rarest personality type in the general population coming in at just 2%. INFJs are especially rare among men with only 1% of men qualifying as this personality type. It is slightly more common in women at around 2%.
There's no denying ENFPs are one of the funniest personality types. ENFPs are charming and gregarious, two qualities that make them naturally funny. They are known for their bubbly, enthusiastic personalities. And their lively personality means they're always up for a good time.
INTJs and INFJs are the most secretive of all personality types. They can take a while to trust someone and they often prefer to keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves.