What to say when a guy likes you but you don t like him?
“We won't have a romantic relationship.” “We can stay friends if you're going to keep it at friendship.” “There isn't the right chemistry between us.” "I think you're a great guy; however, I feel that we connect better as friends rather than romantically."
What to say if someone likes you but you don t like them?
You may begin the topic by saying something like “I get the feeling that, and please correct me if I'm wrong, that you may have a crush on me. I want to let you know, that while I am flattered, I am not interested in the same way. I hope that you understand.”
“Hey, I had a great time with you, but I'm just not interested right now.” “I'm sorry, I just didn't feel a connection.” “I'm just not interested in dating you.” “I love the fact that you make me laugh, but I don't see this as something with long-term potential.”
How do you explain to a guy that you don't like him?
You Don't Have to Explain
You really don't need to go into a lot of detail about why you're rejecting someone. If you do, stick with “I” statements like “I just don't feel a romantic connection,” or “I am not looking for a relationship right now.” More importantly, try not to put blame on the person for rejecting them.
You can say, “You're a great friend, but I'm not interested in you as a romantic or sexual partner.” If this is an acquaintance or someone you don't know too well, rather than a close friend, you can try something like, “I'm flattered that you like me, but I'm not interested in you in that way.”
How to say no to someone who likes you without hurting them?
Just be direct and polite! Try: “I really appreciate your interest and openness, but I'm not able to reciprocate it. I know it may be hard to hear, but I'm not interested in moving forward.”
Blaming ourselves and attacking our self-worth only deepens the emotional pain we feel and makes it harder for us to recover emotionally,” Winch said. Relationship expert and therapist Nicole McCance, says being left for someone else is the hardest type of rejection.
How do you tell someone who has a crush on you that you don t like them?
“I really enjoyed our time together but I'm not feeling a connection.” “I always appreciate it when people are direct with me so I want to be direct with you and while I really liked getting to know you I don't think we're a good match.” “I care for you as a friend but I don't have romantic feelings for you.”
One could be because of his esteem issues, which we've already spoken about. He could be thinking that it's likely you like someone else because they're better looking or you seem to laugh more around them. But another reason might be because you've shared thoughts about other guys in the past to him.
Just be direct but polite. Say, "I appreciate your openness and interest, but I'm not able to reciprocate it. I know it might sound hard to hear, but I'm not interested in moving forward." This will not put them off and let them move on from you easily too.
If you feel like your guy is ignoring you, try speaking up about it. Colby Marie Z., a sex and relationship coach, suggests saying something like, “You've seemed really distant the past couple of weeks—you haven't been calling as often and only answer texts with one or two words.
How long does it take for a guy to figure out his feelings?
Men take an average of 88 days (about three months) to tell their partner they love them, whereas women take an average of 134 days (four and a half months), according to a 2013 survey conducted by YouGov and eHarmony.
