Losing a Pet is Never Easy. That being said, it's important to take some time to process the loss of your previous pet before embarking on getting a new one. However, no one can stipulate how much time you need; it could be weeks, or months, or days, depending on the owner.
After the grieving period, it's normal and OK to consider getting another one. You should not feel guilty about the prospect of “replacing” your most adored dog.
Pet owners may have long suspected it, but now a study has found that nearly 90 per cent of dogs that experienced the death of a “companion” canine in the same household showed negative behaviours in the following months. This included becoming less playful, eating less, being more fearful and seeking more attention.
Similar to humans, the grieving process differs for each individual dog experiencing it, lasting from weeks to months. “You can't normalize the grieving process. Some people grieve differently and some dogs grieve differently,” says Dr. Bekoff.
Dogs experience a form of mourning when another dog in the household dies. The loss of a loved one can have a profound impact on humans, affecting everything from sleep patterns to appetite. Now researchers say they have found similar behaviour changes in dogs who have lost a canine companion.
You may bring your other dog to your pet's euthanasia appointment to allow them say goodbye and help ease the transition of grieving. However, it would be best to keep pets away if you believe they will be distracting during the procedure. Allowing your other animal to see your deceased pet is a personal choice.
A survey of dog owners in Italy reported that 86 percent of them saw negative changes in the behavior of a surviving dog after the death of a companion dog in the same household — among other things, the surviving dog typically sought more attention, ate less and played less for several months after the event.
Take the time to focus on your bond with your surviving pet. Think about what makes them happy and do more than that. For some dogs this might be getting lots of fuss, and for others it might be training, play or longer walks. Human or animal, loss affects us all, but we cope best when we care for each other.
Your dog will hardly know what happened and will simply start to feel pleasantly drowsy. You will notice that I said “Your vet will hopefully prepare an anaesthetic or sedative injection for your dog”. Some do not. Having seen it done both ways, the “two injection” method is definitely my preference.
But does your dog understand the depth of love you have for him or her? According to Dr. Brian Hare, a canine cognition specialist, our dogs do know we love them. Dogs and humans have the ability to form a special neural connection.
Second Dog Syndrome
As humans, we are bound to forget all of the time and effort it takes to raise a puppy right. All too often, a second dog joins the household and the expectation is that they will behave as the existing dog in the home does, so they are often given the same freedom right off the bat.
Isolation or becoming extra needy. Other signs that a dog is dying is if they either socially distancing themselves from humans or other pets, or become unusually clingy or needy. If you notice your dog seeking solitude, respect their space and engage with them slowly and calmly.
Yes, your dog knows how much you love him! Dogs and humans have a very special relationship, where dogs have hijacked the human oxytocin bonding pathway normally reserved for our babies. When you stare at your dog, both your oxytocin levels go up, the same as when you pet them and play with them.
Talk to your family and friends. Find out who can or wants to be present. Think about which people have played a big role in your pet's life. Also, think about who will be able to support you emotionally and practically if you feel overwhelmed.
Choose a method
These days, most people post their pet death announcements on social media, and that may be the method you choose, too. But if you don't often use social media, or you'd rather just make the announcement to specific people, you can send an email or old-fashioned letter.
Dogs are typically extremely stoical and do not easily show pain, but your veterinary surgeon will tell you that the most common indications of declining quality of life include loss of appetite, pain, depression, or loss of interest in familiar people and toys.
One of the most important rules of dog training is the two second rule. This is because dogs always live in the moment so TIMING IS EVERYTHING! Feedback must be given to your dog within two seconds of the behavior in order for him to understand what you are correcting or rewarding.
So, if you get a 2nd dog, please make sure and socialize them on their own. Walk them on their own, take them to new places alone, and especially take them to the dog park without your other dog so they can be taught appropriate behavior by new dogs and not just rely on interactions with their sibling.
Getting a second dog could make your first dog feel displaced and uncertain. While the majority of dogs will get along well with their new sibling, your first dog may not be happy having to share their toys, space, territory, or even their owner's affection.
New Pets. Introducing a new pet may leave your dog feeling jealous. The best way to avoid jealousy in your pet is to make sure that you're giving it enough love, exercise, attention and interaction, even if you have another pet at home.
The (sort of) good news is that all these feelings are common. Type “second-dog guilt” into Google, and you'll see how many people feel conflicted about adding another dog to the pack. So though it doesn't necessarily feel good to feel this way, at least there's safety in numbers.
What's the age of your current dog? Many breeders recommend that your first dog be at least one-to-two-years old before you add a second to the family. If you have an old dog, they may not be physically able to play with or tolerate a pup.
The body language that your dog uses when you kiss them will be an indicator that they know it is a sign of affection. Of course, dogs don't know what kisses actually are, but they learn to realize that they are good.