When leaving a puppy for work, arrange for mid-day potty breaks (dog walker, friend), set up a safe, puppy-proofed space with a crate or pen, and provide enrichment like puzzle toys (Kongs, snuffle mats) to keep them busy and prevent boredom or separation anxiety, ensuring all needs are met before you leave for stimulating naps.
The length of time a dog can be left alone depends on the individual dog but we advise that they are left for no longer than four hours so they have opportunities to exercise, go to the toilet, and spend time with people.
The 777 Puppy Rule (or Rule of 7s) is a guideline for puppy socialization, suggesting that by seven weeks old, a puppy should experience seven different Surfaces, seven different Sounds, seven different Objects, seven different People, seven different Locations, seven different Containers, and seven different Challenges, all in positive, short, and safe ways to build confidence and resilience. It helps prevent fear and reactivity by creating positive associations with novel experiences during the critical socialization window (around 4-16 weeks).
A crate, playpen, or puppy-proofed room are probably your best bets. These will let your puppy nap safely while you are out. A compromise would be a secure, covered outdoor dog kennel. There's nothing wrong with safely containing your puppy for a few hours when you can't supervise him.
Remember, dogs and especially puppies need to urinate often. As a guideline, new puppies up to 10 weeks old typically can't hold their bladder for more than an hour. Dogs between 10 to 12 weeks old can usually hold it for around two hours.
The 10-10-10 rule for puppy potty training is a specific routine: 10 minutes outside in the designated potty spot, staying 10 feet away from the house/play area, followed by 10 minutes of focused supervision indoors to prevent accidents before the next potty break, creating a consistent cycle for success. This method ensures the puppy has ample time to eliminate and minimizes mistakes by closely monitoring them afterward, reinforcing good habits consistently.
Unlike the crate where you can't leave a young puppy for long periods; the puppy will be fine in the playpen and you can go out for longer periods. Just make sure your dog is ready before you leave for a long period so the puppy does not feel left alone form the start and associate that with the playpen itself.
The 3-3-3 rule for dogs is a guideline for the adjustment period after adoption, outlining three phases: 3 Days (decompression, feeling overwhelmed/scared), 3 Weeks (starting to settle in, learning routine, personality emerges), and 3 Months (feeling secure, bonded, and truly at home). It helps new owners manage expectations and be patient as their rescue dog transitions, emphasizing calm energy, routine, and space in the early days to build trust.
By confining your dog to a crate while you are at work, you can also streamline the potty training process, as most dogs instinctively avoid soiling their living space. Furthermore, a crate can keep your dog and your belongings safe while you're not able to supervise them.
First, crate train your puppy, and second, arrange for regular toilet breaks at appropriate intervals. Before leaving for work, play with your pup and take them out for a potty break. When they go, give the usual praise and reward. Then pop your pup into the crate with a safe chew toy.
Red flag puppy behaviors signal serious issues beyond normal puppy antics, including aggression (growling, snapping, biting, lunging), extreme fear/anxiety (intense cowering, hiding, refusing treats, constant escape attempts, shutting down), resource guarding (guarding food/toys with aggression), and severe separation anxiety (destructive behavior when alone). Recognizing these early and seeking professional help from a trainer or vet is crucial, as these often stem from trauma or lack of socialization and won't just disappear with age.
The 3-second rule for puppies (and dogs) is a guideline for positive greetings and interactions, suggesting initial meetings or petting sessions last no more than three seconds before pausing, allowing the dog to choose to re-engage, which helps build confidence, reduce overstimulation, and prevent negative reactions like fear or aggression. It teaches dogs that social contact is on their terms, using short, controlled sniff-and-greet intervals (3 seconds), then disengaging, and repeating as needed, while also being used for petting to let dogs signal they want more.
The hardest months with a puppy often center around two key periods: 3-5 months (teething, regression, lack of impulse control) and 6-12 months (adolescence), when hormone surges bring boundary testing, stubbornness, and increased energy, making training and housebreaking challenging as they become "teenagers". Expect frustration with accidents, nipping, chewing, and defiance during these phases as their brains develop, requiring patience and consistent training.
Some lonely dog symptoms that are brought on by being home alone can include:
An hour for a dog feels much longer than an hour for a human because dogs perceive time more slowly due to their faster metabolism and heightened awareness of routines, so a 10-minute wait can feel like 70 minutes to them, and your hour-long absence feels like an eternity, though they don't grasp clock time but rather the intervals between events like meals, walks, and your return.
At 10 weeks old, don't make him stay in the crate longer than 2-3 hours without a break. If you have to leave him longer than that, leave him with an appropriate place to relieve himself away from his bed. An x-pen with his crate, a doggy toilet, and some water and toys would be a good setup for those longer periods.
You might think your dog just sleeps all day, but they're also exploring, playing with their favorite toys, and keeping an eye on things out the window. You can keep your dog occupied with puzzle toys or treats to sniff out. It's also important to stick to a routine to help them feel less stressed.
For now, you should stick to the garden or carry them outside in your arms on in a pet carrier. Use this time to do some basic training with your puppy. Get them used to walking on the lead in the house or garden.
Common Signs of Crate Anxiety in Dogs
The most commonly surrendered dog type is the "pit bull type" (including mixes), often due to negative stereotypes, breed-specific legislation, and high energy levels, followed by other popular breeds like German Shepherds, Huskies, and Labrador Retrievers that may not fit owner lifestyles. Breeds like Staffordshire Bull Terriers (especially mixes) also top surrender lists in some regions like Australia.
The seven second rule. Put the back of your hand on the pavement. If you cannot hold it for seven seconds, it is too hot to walk for your dogs. This rule also applies to dogs riding in the bed of a pickup truck.
For most pets, it takes on average 3 months to fully become comfortable and acclimated to their new home. However, some pets may need longer to adjust, and some may adapt more quickly.
If your dog does not use a crate, gate them into a dog-proofed area. Generally, it's a good idea to keep your dog away from windows—especially if you live on a busy street. Observing passersby may cause your dog to bark anxiously and make their at-home environment more stressful.
Ignore the Puppy Crying
If you don't respond right away and the puppy settles within a few minutes, you don't need to go back into the room. But if the puppy's crying continues longer for more than about two minutes, you can make a brief verbal response to the puppy's cry.
While the general consensus is that you can leave them home one hour every day, the length of time will depend on how long they can hold their bladder. If your pup is under 12 weeks, then you won't want to leave them alone for more than two hours.