It's alright to cry
In short, yes — all of that. If you want to have a deep, authentic relationship with someone — if you want to be seen, known, and loved for the real you, then you've got to let that person really see you. A guy who is turned off by your tears isn't a guy you want to be with, anyway.
If someone has a crush on you, there's a fairly good chance they'll be glancing at you more often than others. They might stare at you when they think you aren't noticing and might even look away if you catch them. Such sneaking glances at you may indicate they like you as well.
Being humiliated in front of your crush is a terrible feeling, but it will get better. Try to remember that your crush probably doesn't realize you're embarrassed. If the humiliation is recent, focus on dealing with your feelings. Additionally, it's helpful to confront your feelings so you can move past the incident.
According to the survey of 1,500 people by Elite Singles, 95 per cent of women say they prefer a man who is open about his emotions, while 97 per cent say they find that men crying is considered either strong, natural or healthy.
If you're not close to her but she is still crying in front of you, she is probably quite distressed indeed and in need of some sympathy. It is especially important for you to react with empathy and not with annoyance, panic, or fear. Allow her to cry. If she does in fact want you around, let her cry.
If they ignore you, it's because of they: Do not want to see your presence. Some of them may find you annoying stalker type, or too clingy — so they do not want to see you. Do not want you to look or even stalk them.
Make eye contact with him.
As you meet his gaze, give a small smile before looking away. Just a brief moment of eye contact could be enough to make him interested in you too. Be careful not to stare at him so long that he gets uncomfortable. A quick glance is usually enough to convey that you want him to talk to you.
If you're texting your crush, avoid sending a text that just says “hey.” This doesn't tell your crush anything specific about why you're talking to them and is hard to respond to. Even adding on a simple, “how are you?” after your hello is a better conversation starter. You could say, "Hey!
Avoid texting your crush every day.
Giving them some time between your messages gives your crush enough time to do the things they want to and makes them miss you even more.
Some girls may like shy guys, while others may not, just as some women may prefer outgoing men to those who are more reserved. Moreover, some women may like certain shy men and dislike others, choosing to focus on a person as a whole rather than a small sliver of someone's personality.
Several factors play a role in an individual's propensity to cry. Gender differences in crying, for example, have been explored for decades and across the world, and all of the studies reached the same conclusion: Women cry more than men.
Researchers believe boys and girls cry at about the same rates until they reach adolescence. As testosterone levels ramp up in boys, their amount of crying plummets. As estrogen levels rise in girls, however, their crying increases.
Being shy and awkward around your crush is totally normal. When we have feelings for another person, it's easy to want to be perfect around them and naturally, that puts a lot of pressure on yourself.
Simply walk away. If saying nothing feels too rude to you (after all, you don't want to dip to their level), simply say one polite thing to excuse yourself and then leave.
It's totally normal to feel heartbroken and sad after your crush rejects you. Over time, these feelings will fade. Your crush probably feels really bad about rejecting you. Chances are, they didn't want to hurt you but just aren't interested in being more than friends.