What to say to a cheating boyfriend to make him feel bad?
Let him know that he hurt you.
Be direct and honest and tell him that you cared about him and what he's done has ruined your relationship. He may really regret his actions. For instance, you could say, “I can't believe you did this. I'm devastated.
Cheating husbands may be defensive over the smallest things. They may seem unusually sensitive or touchy about things that seem harmless to you. If you ask an innocent question about what they had for lunch, they may snap at you and accuse you of being controlling or demanding.
Confronting him and making him feel guilty is enough to hurt him. Just tell him how angry you are and how betrayed you feel. Be honest and express how one moment of lust destroyed years of trust. You can forgive your cheating boyfriend eventually but as Tori rightly said, “Don't ever forget it.”
Some of the men here felt fleeting remorse for their infractions; others experienced more anxiety about their partners finding out about the affair than truly feeling guilty for cheating. Some had no regrets about the cheating whatsoever.
Look for these telltale signs to determine true remorse: Not only do they apologize, and often, but they also openly express what they're apologizing for. They don't make vague statements or blanket apologies. They show their remorse by doing things that they feel will lessen your pain.
Access their social media accounts and look into the posts, comments, friends, and any information they've shared. Search through their trash or drawers to locate evidence that they have been cheating. Install covert cameras around your property to catch them in the act of cheating.
A man can cheat on his wife and still love her. So yes, he most likely does love you, even if he made a poor choice and cheated. Infidelity is about the cheater and not the person cheated on – this is a crucial distinction.
Infidelity does not mean that the love is gone or never existed. The reality is that you can love someone and still cheat on them. In fact, many affairs happen in relationships that are otherwise very happy.
In order for change to be sustainable, your partner must—at the minimum—express remorse. This usually requires some level of self-awareness in the person who has cheated. If they came to you after a one-night stand regretful and shocked by their behavior, there is a very high chance that they will change.
The cheater will feel the brunt of their anger and distrust which may become abusive. Being on the receiving end of the pain their spouse is suffering because of the cheating can easily become too much for the straying spouse.
Infidelity makes you feel that you are not good enough. Your self-esteem plummets from reasonably high, or just okay, to close to zero. Your beloved found someone who was better and more attractive than you in his or her eyes—at least temporarily. You feel like trash, unworthy of being loved, unworthy of being.
Another reason why cheaters don't admit feeling bad for how they acted is that they don't feel like they were cheating. Perhaps a person goes out to lunch with someone from work and talks to them on the phone often. You may feel like this isn't appropriate, but your partner might not feel the same way.
