After giving birth, avoid heavy lifting, strenuous exercise, and tub baths/swimming until healed; don't strain to have a bowel movement, ignore signs of infection (fever, heavy bleeding, pain), drive too soon (especially after C-section), or overdo visitors, prioritizing rest, hygiene (no tampons), and gentle movement like walking, while listening to your body and consulting your doctor for personalized guidance.
You Shouldn't Do These 12 Things After Giving Birth
Limiting physical activity: While you may want to return to your pre-pregnancy size, don't rush to exercise or get back in shape. Your healthcare provider will let you know when it's safe to exercise. Most people can begin walking or doing gentle movements a few days after giving birth.
If your baby is breathing well, they can be placed naked, skin to skin, on your chest or belly immediately after birth. Skin-to-skin contact keeps your baby warm. It also helps to steady your baby's breathing and heart rate and trigger your first breastfeed. And it helps you to bond with your baby.
In the Middle East, resting 40 days after having a baby is customary in Jordan, Lebanon, Egypt and Palestine. During this 40-day period, someone comes to the house or stays with the new mother to take care of the baby, the house and the other children, so that all new mothers have to do is rest.
Increased bleeding after your lochia starts to decrease can be a sign you're overdoing it and need more rest. Seeing ongoing clots could mean your uterus is having trouble getting back to its pre-pregnancy size. In either case, it's always best to call.
The first six to 12 hours after you give birth is considered the acute phase of postpartum recovery. Within this window parents are at their highest risk for conditions like postpartum eclampsia, postpartum hemorrhage, and certain medical emergencies.
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, infants should generally not spend more than two hours in their car seat at a time.* Think about it. You probably get fidgety after sitting for 2 hours — and remember, as an adult your movement is less restricted when using a lap-and-shoulder seat belt.
These can include: Significant postpartum bleeding resulting in a patient soaking through a pad for several hours in a row. Severe headache that doesn't go away with Tylenol. Dizziness or feeling like you are about to faint.
In those first few weeks postpartum, your cervix is still somewhat dilated, regardless of whether you had a vaginal delivery or a c-section. There's a theory – though no research has confirmed this – that tub water could travel into your uterus, introduce bacteria, and cause an infection.
8 Postpartum Essentials
The 5-3-3 rule is a loose guideline for structuring a baby's sleep schedule: 5 hours of wake time before the first nap, 3 hours of wake time before the second nap, and 3 hours before bedtime.
Avoid vegetables and fruits such as cabbage, sweet bananas, strawberries, cherries, and grapes: May cause gas and abdominal discomfort for the baby.
These include:
"The first five to eight minutes of sleep is shallow sleep," she explained. "So if you immediately place their infant down after they're asleep, you'll hit the shallow sleep, they'll wake up and you'll be unsuccessful. That's why you want to wait for that five to eight minutes after the infant falls asleep.
There are no set rules about how long to wait before taking a newborn out into the world or when to let people near the baby. Some doctors recommend that parents wait until their baby is a few months old before going to crowded public places (like malls, movie theaters, and airplanes).
Simply put, newborns and young infants should not spend more than two hours in their car seat at any given time. This doesn't just include time in the car; if you use your car seat with a stroller as part of a travel system, that time counts as well.
The Importance of Rest in Postpartum Care
And when I say rest, I mean real, horizontal rest that truly allows your body to heal. At Haven, we recommend you spend the first five to seven days after birth primarily in bed, with your only responsibilities being to feed yourself, hydrate, and care for your baby.
Most babies will have a period of increased fussiness starting at around 2 weeks of age and usually peaking between 6-8 weeks of age. Although, this is a normal developmental stage for infants it can be very stressful for parents and caregivers.
The first hour after birth, the “Golden Hour”, when a healthy baby is calmly placed skin-to-skin on the mother's chest, not only facilitates a smooth transition from the womb to the outside world, stabilising the baby physiologically, but also offers a unique opportunity for the mother and baby to connect emotionally ( ...
Keep your back in a neutral position – neither too straight nor too curved. Avoid crossing your legs when sitting, or shifting one hip too far from center when standing. This is especially important while holding your baby.
“We identified two distinct groups, a low maternal sleep group where the mothers get 5 to 6 hours of sleep per night, and an average maternal sleep group, which meets the national recommended sleep guidelines with 7 to 8 hours per night.