What are BPD good at?

Bold – Impulsivity is a BPD trait that can be positively linked to being bold, courageous and having the ability to speak one's mind. Creative – The high intensity of emotions can be released into creative endeavours. Many people with BPD put their entire emotional expression into music, art, performance and writing.

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What coping skills do people with borderline personality disorder have?

Coping skills for BPD are often centered around learning to manage moments of emotional instability and/or control anger. Some techniques to help in these situations could include: Using stress-reduction techniques, like deep breathing or meditation. Engaging in light exercise, like walking or yoga.

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Are BPD people successful?

While BPD symptoms can make things more complicated, many people with BPD go on to have very successful careers.

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What do people with BPD need the most?

People with BPD need validation and acknowledgement of the pain they're struggling with. Listen to the emotion your loved one is trying to communicate without getting bogged down in attempting to reconcile the words being used. Try to make the person with BPD feel heard.

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Are people with BPD highly intelligent?

Many individuals with BPD are highly intelligent and are aware that their reactions may seem strong. These individuals often report feeling that emotions control their lives or even that they feel things more intensely than other people.

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Positive Traits of People with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

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What is the hardest mental illness to live with?

Individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPDs) become overwhelmed and incapacitated by the intensity of their emotions, whether it is joy and elation or depression, anxiety, and rage. They are unable to manage these intense emotions.

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Is BPD the hardest disorder to live with?

BPD in particular is one of the lesser-known mental illnesses, but all the same it is one of the hardest to reckon with. (Some people dislike the term so much they prefer to refer to emotionally unstable personality disorder.)

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How do people with BPD see the world?

We all see the world through different eyes, but a person with borderline personality disorder has an abnormally distorted view of themselves and the environment around them. People with borderline personality disorder feel intense, uncontrollable emotions, which can make them very distressed and angry.

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Do people with BPD try to be perfect?

3 Rather than deal with the fear that the other person isn't perfect or that the relationship might not work out, idealization allows them to keep the fantasy of perfection intact. It's common with borderline personality disorder for a person to idealize a friend, family member, or loved one.

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What is a BPD Favourite person?

Another hallmark of borderline personality disorder is having a favorite person—usually a family member, romantic partner, or someone in a supportive role, such as a teacher or coach. For someone with this type of BPD relationship, a “favorite person” is someone they rely on for comfort, happiness, and validation.

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What is the mindset of someone with BPD?

People with BPD also have a tendency to think in extremes, a phenomenon called "dichotomous" or “black-or-white” thinking. 3 People with BPD often struggle to see the complexity in people and situations and are unable to recognize that things are often not either perfect or horrible, but are something in between.

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What triggers BPD rage?

Separations, disagreements, and rejections—real or perceived—are the most common triggers for symptoms. A person with BPD is highly sensitive to abandonment and being alone, which brings about intense feelings of anger, fear, suicidal thoughts and self-harm, and very impulsive decisions.

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Are people with BPD unique?

A person with BPD will have a real, raw, natural vulnerability that is so unique and different from other people. Either by intention or not, most reality TV shows end up featuring a person with BPD because of this authentic openness. Here are a few other gifts of this disorder that you may never have heard of.

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Do BPD people love hard?

Can a person with borderline personality disorder feel love? Absolutely! They may just have a hard time expressing it or establishing some stability in their relationships.

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Do people with BPD trust easily?

According to previous research, patients with borderline personality disorder (BPD) show intense reactions to perceived abandonment, a high degree of mistrust, and a distorted, negative perception of others that contribute significantly to interpersonal problems.

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How common is BPD in Australia?

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition. It affects about 1-4 per cent of people in Australia at some stage of their lives.

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Is BPD a disability in Australia?

Some people with BPD may meet the criteria for the NDIS, some have been approved already, many have not. It is possible for people to recover from BPD however, and to go onto the NDIS, it is required you have a permanent disability this is one of the challenges faced with being eligible for the NDIS.

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What are cool things about people with BPD?

Bold – Impulsivity is a BPD trait that can be positively linked to being bold, courageous and having the ability to speak one's mind. Creative – The high intensity of emotions can be released into creative endeavours. Many people with BPD put their entire emotional expression into music, art, performance and writing.

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What does a BPD meltdown look like?

For many folks with BPD, a “meltdown” will manifest as rage. For some, it might look like swinging from one intense emotion to another. For others, it might mean an instant drop into suicidal ideation. Whatever your experience is, you're not alone.

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Do borderlines cry a lot?

To evaluate crying behavior, we used a set of specially designed tools. Compared to non-patients, BPD patients showed the anticipated higher crying frequency despite a similar crying proneness and ways of dealing with tears.

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What is the most painful mental illness to have?

Borderline personality disorder is one of the most painful mental illnesses since individuals struggling with this disorder are constantly trying to cope with volatile and overwhelming emotions.

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What is the rarest mental health?

Stendhal Syndrome. Stendhal Syndrome is also not listed in DSM 5 as a mental health condition. But it is considered as one of the most peculiar conditions among other mental disorders. It is characterized by the feeling of being anxious and confused after being exposed to a large amount of artwork.

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Do people with BPD have a higher pain tolerance?

Research indicates that individuals with BPD are both highly pain tolerant as well as highly pain intolerant, depending on the context of the pain. Explicitly, during acute self-injury events, pain tolerance tends to be high, whereas with non-malignant chronic endogenous pain, pain tolerance tends to be low.

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What is the life expectancy of someone with BPD?

People with Borderline Personality Disorder have a reduced life expectancy of some 20 years, attributable largely to physical health maladies, notably cardiovascular. Risk factors include obesity, sedentary lifestyle, poor diet and smoking.

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Do people with BPD avoid eye contact?

People with BPD are often hypersensitive to non-verbal cues. They may interpret eye contact differently, often perceiving it as threatening or invasive. This hypersensitivity can lead to heightened anxiety during interpersonal interactions, causing individuals with BPD to avoid eye contact.

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