In general, I would say that by the age of 8 or 9 years-10 at the latest-most children have developed enough of a sense of personal boundaries and body space that they no longer want to shower with a parent or bathe with a sibling of the opposite sex.
While this is a matter of discretion, experts suggest waiting for the child to be 6 or 7 years old at least before letting them experience bath time on their own. Just as you do, remember the goal is to make them appreciate and exercise control over their own body and not shame nudity.
Experts like Dr. Richard Beyer, a psychologist in California, suggests that we should not shower with our child after they reach school age. That's is around 5 years old, but most kids don't even know how to scrub and soap properly at this age. Many children will need longer to learn.
Overall, a father bathing with his young toddler is not considered inappropriate or even a warning sign an adult might be at risk to harm a child. Of course, every family has its own comfort level with issues like nudity, bathing practices and parenting styles.
The good news is that according to the American Academy of Dermatology, kids between the ages of 6 and 11 do not require a daily bath or shower—in fact, bathing once or twice a week is fine. However, if your child is involved in sports or gets dirty, they may need a daily wash.
Bathtub Safety
Children younger than 6 years old should NOT be left unattended in the bathtub. They should also not be in the bathroom alone if there is water in the bathtub. Empty the tub after baths. Make sure the tub is empty before you leave the bathroom.
Dr. Basora-Rovira says there is no specific age that is “too old” for co-sleeping. She encourages parents to not begin practicing co-sleeping in the first place. And, if you are already co-sleeping with your child, to transition him or her out of your bed and into his or her own room as soon as possible.
It's usually fine to leave a young baby alone in her crib while you take a quick shower, for example, but this doesn't apply to swings and bouncy seats, which aren't as safe. (If you're really nervous, you can always tote baby in her car seat into the bathroom with you.)
In many families, it's very normal and healthy to bathe or be naked together with a small child. (Your 3½-year-old is still in that category; kids will usually let you know when they don't want to anymore.)
There is nothing intrinsically harmful about dad and son showering together as long as it seems easy and natural to both of them. It may simply be part of their daily routine just as two people would stand side-by-side brushing teeth.
Yes, it is okay to shower with your child If he/she wants you to. If been in the shower with my mom until I was a adult,but some do not want a parent in the shower with him/her past puberty for privacy or maybe embarrassed if he/she were to tell or get asked if they still shower with their parent(s).
Thankfully, most kids want to bathe daily once they hit puberty. Dermatologists tell parents that once puberty starts, kids should: Shower or take a bath daily.
Really, bathing two or three times a week is fine. In fact, for many kids, even just once or twice a week is fine. You can always do a quick wipe with a wet washcloth to the face, groin area, and any dirty spots.
It's perfectly normal.. I bathed with my mum and sister when I was younger. And because of my disability I still shower with my mum occasionally. If they have gotten to this age without any problems, and parents are ok with the arrangement why would there be any reasons to separate them.
Babies, toddlers and little kids should spend some quality time in the tub two to three times per week. Their delicate skin doesn't need daily cleansing, but it's OK to get out the bath toys more often if your child gets dirty or has a messy diaper situation.
Parents should base their decision on each child's needs, said Kate Gallagher, an educational psychologist. In general though, a 5-year-old can handle going into a public bathroom but shouldn't be asked to go it alone without being taught “protective behaviors” by about age 3, she said.
Bathing your toddler 2-3 times a week is usually enough to keep them clean. But you do need to wash toddlers' faces and genitals every day. And a bath every day is fine if your toddler gets dirty from playing or enjoys bath time, especially as part of a relaxing and calming bedtime routine.
After 12 months, there is no proven risk of harm. There is no evidence that bed-sharing produces children who are more spoiled or dependent. Proven harm to parents. Several studies have shown that more than half of the children who sleep with their parents resist going to bed and awaken several times during the night.
Experts generally recommend around the age of 3 is when children are capable of self-soothing and can move to independent sleeping.
Although not recommended for any age, a 7-year-old sleeping with their parents is considered normal in many families and cultures. Co-sleeping is not recommended, but a 7-year-old child sleeping with parents is considered normal in many families and cultures.
While there is no ideal frequency, experts suggest that showering several times per week is plenty for most people (unless you are grimy, sweaty, or have other reasons to shower more often). Short showers (lasting three or four minutes) with a focus on the armpits and groin may suffice.
There is no appropriate age, until both are comfortable they can bath together.
There's no magic age at which children should transition from baths to showers. “A child in grade three might be able to run her own water, but you're not going to let a kid in grade one do that,” says Flanagan. The family routine—and how much children still enjoy their bath toys—will factor into when they are ready.
Difficulty Adjusting to Puberty
Some teens simply don't recognize the importance of taking a shower. Your teen might not know that after puberty, they'll get sweaty and smelly if they don't shower. Even teens who do shower sometimes don't recognize the need to use soap or wash their hair.