What age gap is too big?

A relationship age gap bigger than 10 years often comes with its own set of issues. “While there are always exceptions to rules, a good rule to remember is that dating someone more than 10 years older will present challenges now or later that add to the preexisting challenges any relationship has,” he says.

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How much of an age gap is OK?

In short, research seems to indicate that in many cultures, an age gap of 1 to 3 years is considered ideal — but some researchers suggest even a relationship with an age gap of less than 10 years will bring more satisfaction. Still, numbers rarely tell the full story when it comes to love.

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How big of an age gap is too big to date?

Romantic couples with a large age gap often raise eyebrows. Studies have found partners with more than a 10-year gap in age experience social disapproval. But when it comes to our own relationships, both men and women prefer someone their own age, but are open to someone 10-15 years their junior or senior.

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Is 20 years too big an age gap?

The truth is, there is no ideal or appropriate age gap in a relationship. Whether it's a 20 year age gap relationship or a 5 year age gap relationship, there will be both challenges and benefits to your situation.

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Is 17 and 25 too big of an age gap?

If you're the 17 year old, then that gap constitutes 32% of everything you have experiences in life. Roughly one third of all of your life experiences, the 25 year old has done that much more than you. Put in those terms, yes, it's a dramatic age gap.

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Is 17 and 20 a bad age gap?

At the same time, a 20-year-old is an adult, so it is crucial to be mindful about not violating laws regarding children. A 20-year-old should not be in a relationship with a 17-year-old. While a three-year gap isn't, in itself, absolutely good or bad, even small age differences can be significant for younger people.

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Is 20 dating 17 weird?

It's not very weird. Less 'weird' than a senior dating a freshman in high school — which always exists to a small degree. The older the parties are, the greater the age difference can be without any concerns on the subject.

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How common is a 25 year age gap?

In Western countries, of male-female couples have an age-gap of 10 years or more, rising to 25% in male-male unions and 15% of female-female relationships. For some the gap is even larger – data suggests that around 1% of heterosexual couples in the US have an age difference of 28 years or more.

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Is 25 years too much of an age gap?

There is no hard and fast rule on what kind of an age gap is or isn't acceptable in any relationship. While couples typically tend to have an age gap of around one to three years in many cultures, each individual will have a different comfort level that they feel is right for them. As psychiatrist Dr.

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Is 21 and 25 a weird age gap?

21 and 25 are not a BIG age gap. It all depends on how mature the 21 year old is, and the 25 year old. Of course people like 12 and 16 is a MAJOR age gap, because the 12 year old is so young they don't know how mature the 12 year old is, and the 12 year old is not ready for a relationship at that age.

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Is 20 and 35 a big age difference?

What's considered a big age gap when you're dating? An age gap of 10 years or more is considered a big difference. When one person has a decade more life experience than their partner, the couple might be incompatible. You're likely to have different circles of friends, different interests, and different life goals.

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Are couples with big age gaps happier?

Couples with a zero to three-year age difference showed greater satisfaction than those with a four- to six-year gap. Likewise, couples with a four- to six-year gap showed greater satisfaction than those with a seven-plus year gap. In general, marital satisfaction decreased as the age difference increased.

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Is 18 and 26 weird?

No there is nothing at all wrong with a 18 year old and a 26 year old being together. It is totally fine. It is also just an 8 year age difference which is nothing. 8 years is not a big age difference.

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Can 20 year age gap work?

Issues like fertility, starting and blending families, differences in life stages like retirement need to be worked through. But beyond that, there's no such thing as a perfect age gap. No relationship is without flaws, nor are there any guaranteed outcomes. So if you and your mate are decades apart, it may not matter.

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Can a relationship with a 30 year age gap work?

Relationships with a big age gap can work if you're willing to put the effort in. There are times when they can seem more difficult because of generational differences; so, it's important to common interests and goals. If your values are aligned, it doesn't really matter if there is a large age gap.

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Do large age gap relationships work?

Many people assume that age-gap couples fare poorly when it comes to relationship outcomes. But some studies find the relationship satisfaction reported by age-gap couples is higher. These couples also seem to report greater trust and commitment and lower jealousy than similar-age couples.

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Can a man love a woman 20 years older?

Yes, a younger man falling for an older woman is more common than many think. There are many reasons why younger men fall for older women, but most commonly, he admires her maturity and experience associated with being an older person.

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Is 14 years too much of a difference?

Romantic couples with a large age gap often raise eyebrows. Studies have found partners with more than a ten-year gap in age experience social disapproval. But when it comes to our own relationships, both men and women prefer someone their own age, but are open to someone 10-15 years their junior or senior.

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Is 27 years too big of an age gap?

Dating Age Rule. The dating age rule to determining a socially acceptable age difference in partners goes something like this: half your age plus seven (40 = 20 +7 = 27) to define the minimum age of a partner and your age minus seven times two (40 = 33 * 2 = 60) to define the maximum age of a partner.

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Is 26 age gap too much?

Totally! As long as you love each other age doesn't matter. My fiance is 26–27 yrs older than I am, and I have everything i could want and need in a relationship and Im the happiest i could be.

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Who has a 30 year age gap?

Jeff Goldblum, Sean Penn, and Richard Gere have partners who are more than 30 years their junior. Dennis Quaid and Mick Jagger are over 40 years older than their partners.

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Is 27 and 20 a bad age gap?

Is that too much of an age gap? Short answer no. You are both still in the same generation so you should have similar interests and things in common.

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Is 22 dating 18 weird?

Should a 22 year old date an 18 year old? Legally, there is nothing wrong with pursuing a romantic or sexual relationship since, in all states, 18 is considered an age of consent, and both parties involved are considered adults. Socially, there are some taboos with the age difference.

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Is 18 and 21 dating weird?

Originally Answered: Is it weird for an 18 year old girl to date a 21 year old guy? It's not only not weird, it's really, really common. The real thing to consider (since you're both legally adults) is what life experience you have in common. At 18, you've either recently graduated or are a high school senior.

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Is 18 and 23 a big age difference?

Originally Answered: Is it appropriate for a 23 year old to date an 18 year old? You are both adults. As long as each of you respects the other person there is no reason you cannot become involved in a dating relationship. The age difference that might make you a little uncomfortable now will lessen over time.

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