Average number of times per week married couples make love 25% had sex once a week. 16% had sex two to three times per week. 5% had sex four or more times per week. 17% had sex once a month.
31 percent of couples have sex several times a week; 28 percent of couples have sex a couple of times a month; and 8 percent of couples have sex once a month. Sadly — or so we thought — 33 percent of respondents said they rarely or never have sex.
Under normal circumstances, couples should have sex at least twice in a week. Many things would come in; work, children, personal duties and obligations but one must always make time to satisfy that urge and have fun with one's spouse.
How much sex should a couple have? Once a week is a common baseline, experts say. That statistic depends slightly on age: 40- and 50-year-olds tend to fall around that baseline, while 20- to 30-year olds tend to average around twice a week.
The secret is to negotiate how many times per week works for both of you. Just like many other areas in marriage, sex and its frequency also require compromise. But studies show that a weekly frequency is good enough to keep your marriage happy.
20% of men and 12% of women have oral sex at least once a week. 45% of men and 8% of women say they think of sex at least once a day. 73% of men and 33% of women in their 50s say they have an orgasm every time they have sex.
Like women, men want a life partner who will be trustworthy, faithful and reliable. They want a wife who will stand by their side and, considering divorce rates, it's no surprise that dependability would continue to be attractive.
Focus on foreplay
Your woman needs time and for her, foreplay is the most important thing. It helps in vaginal lubrication, which is required for deep penetration and better sexual experience. Your sexual activity doesn't need to be longer, but better. Your woman can get the orgasm even without penetration.
To make your man happy emotionally, you have to be attentive to his needs and to know when to give him space. To make your man happy sexually, you have to want to try new things and to be bold and adventurous. But the most important part is that you are feeling happy while you're pleasing your man.
In plain language: Men often feel most loved by the women in their lives when their partners hug them, kiss them, smile at them, and explicitly offer gratitude, praise, and words of affection. Men also feel loved and connected through sexuality, often to a greater degree than women do.
TOUCH IT: Face your man and lightly place your hands around each forearm with your thumbs on top, using your fingers to lightly rub up and down the top and bottom of his arms (massage the meatiest parts but avoid the bone), recommends sex coach Amy Levine, founder of Sexedsolutions.com.
When in the mood, hang around him and be enthusiastic about everything he is doing. He will love the attention, and well, you won't have to initiate anything. Play peekaboo: In the morning, when you are in the mood for a quickie, pull on a t-shirt and conveniently forget your bra.
Touch his shoulder or grab his hand.
This is often the most gentle and sweetest way to caress your boyfriend, because it is such a light touch that shows him you are thinking about him. When you are in public or with friends, reach over and grab his hand, squeeze it, and let it go.
According to Steve Harvey, if you provide a man with these three things in a relationship, he won't leave: support, loyalty, and intimacy. Harvey says that men may hide behind their macho demeanors, but in the end they just want to feel special.
During sexual intercourse, most men ejaculate between 5-10 minutes and research has shown the average time to ejaculate after penetration is 5 1/2 minutes. Usually, ejaculation less than 1 to 1 1/2 minutes after penetration is regarded as premature ejaculation.
The sex therapists surveyed say that anywhere from 7 to 13 minutes is “desirable.” It's important to note that these figures only apply to penile-vaginal intercourse. They don't account for things like foreplay, and they aren't representative of other types of sex.
Men prefer a woman who can stay calm and relaxed. Beauty is more than make-up and a fancy haircut. Men find women more attractive when they are neat and clean. Men find women who smell nice, who have clean hair and hydrated skin more attractive than a face perfectly covered in makeup.