You can say, “You're a great friend, but I'm not interested in you as a romantic or sexual partner.” If this is an acquaintance or someone you don't know too well, rather than a close friend, you can try something like, “I'm flattered that you like me, but I'm not interested in you in that way.”
Just be direct and polite! Try: “I really appreciate your interest and openness, but I'm not able to reciprocate it. I know it may be hard to hear, but I'm not interested in moving forward.”
They may not be interested in dating and relationships and instead are only for hookups. They may already be taken, and so they have no interest in meeting and dating new men. (Up to half of them will be married.) There may be too much going on in their lives, and they have no time for love.
Being shy or not having an opinion of what you do is cute, sometimes. Constantly saying you don't care, when you probably do or even if you really don't, will leave a guy wondering if he's doing things the right way. Let your voice be heard and express yourself.
"I really like spending time with you, but I just don't feel a romantic spark." "You're a great guy, but there's no chemistry between us. I think you'll find someone else who's a better match." "You're super fun, but I'm not getting romantic vibes.
If you want to completely ignore a guy, avoid him on all forms of social media. Stop liking and commenting on his posts or pictures and don't message him. You can even unfollow him, but if he notices, he'll know that you went out of your way to do so, which might hint that you're affected by him.
Ignoring a guy is one of the surefire ways to get his attention, as he would at most times try to win your attention back. However, ignoring alone doesn't put you at the forefront of his thoughts and make you desirable.
Ignoring a guy is a super powerful tool to grab his attention, keep his attention, or curb his bad behavior. Although guys usually pretend like they couldn't care less if women are around, try ignoring him. What you will find, is he needs you a whole lot more than he lets on.
How do you tell a guy you just want to be friends?
I'm sorry, but I just don't feel a romantic connection. I am interested in a friendship with you, though. Last night was great, but I'm not interested in you romantically. However, I do want to keep hanging out with you, because I really do want to be your friend.
How do you Friendzone someone nicely? The nicest way to friend zone someone is always the most honest one. Tell them directly that you enjoy their friendship but do not want any romantic or sexual relationship with them. Being direct when you are friend-zoning someone is really the most compassionate thing you can do.
