How do you know when a woman wants you to approach her?
If a woman wants you to approach her, she may actually move herself to be nearer to you. She might hang out on your side of the bar, have her friend group switch tables, dance near to you or in your line of sight, or take up a spot alone so you can see she is open to be spoken to.
She will test you by not texting back immediately or keeping from initiating a conversation. This is a sign that she wants to see your interest in talking to her. She wants to see if you are trying to reach out to her. Sometimes, she may play hard to get to see if you will stick around.
Catching her staring at you is the biggest sign she has a crush. Look for other telltale cues like blushing, giggling, or making excuses to be together. Listen carefully to what she says—if she asks you about your crushes or talks about how she wants a boyfriend, she's dropping you some hints.
She may suddenly cancel plans, make you impatient, dig into your past, or constantly text you. Though it can be tough to understand her behavior, these could be signs she is testing you. It is important not to feel enraged or offended as a woman may test only the man she likes and wants in her life.
You can try: "When we talk and spend time together, I feel like we have a great connection. I've been wanting to ask you if you have feelings for me, because I have feelings for you." You could also try saying something like, "I've liked you for a while now, and I was hoping you had feelings for me too. Do you?"
She also might want to hug you or be open to an invitation to be hugged. The more often she touches you, the more likely it is that she is interested in you. Frequent touching can promote intimacy. When she touches you, it may mean she wants you to notice her physically.
Touching becomes flirting when it's done with the intention of showing interest or attraction. This could be a light touch on the arm during a conversation, a playful nudge, or a gentle touch on the hand.
This is another sign that she may have a crush on you. If every time you walk by or talk to her, you find her turning red or getting flustered, then this may be a sign that she likes you and is shy and embarrassed about talking to you or saying the wrong thing.
Women reportedly blush more than men, but the one study that measured gender differences did not find strong evidence of this. Blushing is unique to humans, although animals with naked skin have flush reactions so they seem to blush.
How do you attract a girl who is interested in you?
Be courageous.
Keep your eyes up. Don't look at the floor. ...
Make your intentions clear. You don't have to say something blunt like, "I want you." Casually interject that she is "good-looking," or "stunning," or something along those lines to show you find her attractive. ...
