Make sure you're drinking enough water. Hydrated lips look healthy and supple and it's essential to keep yourself hydrated from the inside by keeping topped up with H20 all day long.
Start slow, be gentle, and stay in the moment. Think of French kissing as massaging your partner's tongue. Whatever you do with your hands, be comfortable. If the kisses aren't doing it for you, don't be shy about giving your partner feedback — and asking for feedback yourself.
Not everyone is comfortable with teeth during a kiss, so it's generally best to stick to a gentle tug on the lips. Anything more than that might be worth a conversation to touch base on what you both feel comfortable with.
Choose a comfortable setting. To facilitate a satisfying make-out session, you'll need a safe space where you can concentrate on the matter at hand. ...
The anticipation of a kiss increases the flow of saliva to your mouth and gives your teeth a plaque-dispersing bath. Bad breath can't be passed on to another person via kissing.
No need to wait for the official first date to get a little face time, however. Americans agree kids are ready for their first kiss at age 15 (15.1 on average), while on average, they had theirs at age 14.5.
Today, an average kiss lasts more than 12 seconds. In the 1980s, couples came up for air sooner than that: back then an average kiss lasted a mere 5.5 seconds. 3. Public kissing isn't always allowed everywhere.
How do you kiss for a deep kiss for the first time?
If you receive the green light to deepen the kiss, part your lips and gently use your tongue to stimulate your partner's lips and tongue. Run your tongue along their lips or slide your tongue along theirs. Take it slowly and gently, allowing the intensity to build as you match your partner's energy and movements.
"Your biological stress system is actually activated when you have your first kiss," Seiter says. "But, this doesn't mean you're stressed out. You'll experience increased heart rate, sweating, or butterflies in your stomach; a physiological excitement response."
There are over 100 billion complex nerve cells liberally spread throughout the lips. They are the gateway to tiny neurotransmitter molecules that help trigger hormone release including dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin and adrenaline. That first passionate kiss causes dopamine to spike in the brain.
When you want to be kissed--say, at the end of a great date--slooooow down. Start speaking slower and let there be some pauses. Pauses are good! They help set the mood.
Kissing comes naturally but our techniques can evolve.
So while all of us seem to be programmed to know what to do, we pick up culture-specific techniques from movies and TV. Still, Kirshenbaum said, "There are definitely things people can learn to make it a better experience."
Open mouth and tongue kissing are especially effective in upping the level of sexual arousal, because they increase the amount of saliva produced and exchanged. The more spit you swap, the more turned on you'll get.
"Never ask to kiss a girl, just do it. "Your first kiss should arise out of the situation because you both want it. It's something you feel, not something you sign a contract on."
