It is a thoughtful gesture and shows you are making an effort. Men generally never show it but they too, secretly wish to be pampered by their girlfriends.
"Wondering what you would do if you were here..." "How great you looked in that shirt last night" "Just remembering that time we were in the hot tub..." "That I'd really like to be kissing you right now"
Play with his nipples, sucking on them then blowing on them for extra stimulation; explore his chest and abdomen with your hands; squeeze his behind; and caress his skin from top to toe, to make sure all his nerve endings are on fire for your touch.
For example, a guy might do a lot of things at first to show he cares, such as buying you flowers, paying extra attention to you, and making you feel special. Over time, if the caring is truly genuine, guys will continue to go the extra mile.
"Cuddling, especially with someone you like, gives you a sense of closeness and relaxed intimacy that's difficult to find in other activities. If you feel comfortable with the other person, it kind of just let's you relax and not have to do much physically.
Can cuddling make you fall in love? On its own, cuddling is unlikely to make you fall in love with someone. But, as noted above, because cuddling can cause your body to release certain hormones, like oxytocin, it can make you feel loved or bonded with someone that you're already falling for.
Even if you've been together for years, your man will love a message like this. He'll appreciate knowing that he holds such a significant place in your life (and your heart). "You make life so much better." "You're the love of my life."
Good options include things like: “My day would've been a lot better if you were in it.” “Even over text, you're adorable.” “I had a stressful day, but talking to you makes it fade away like magic.”
To build emotional attraction with a man, be an active listener, share personal experiences, and show affection using his love language. A man feels emotionally attracted to someone when he feels understood and loved for his true self, so don't be afraid to be vulnerable—it might encourage him to open up to you.
Men want love as badly as women do. They just might not always be as obvious about it. But generally, they want the same thing: friendship, companionship, chemistry.
