Whether you can win him back depends on many factors, such as both of your Moon and Ascendant signs and other aspects of his astrological chart. If he is a typical Virgo though, he will probably stick to his guns unless you do some hard personal work first.
Virgo fusses, worries and analyzes what they did wrong. They'll try to do everything they can to save and fix the relationship, but once they reach the point of being 110% sure that the relationship is not healthy for them, they really have no problem letting go.
A Virgo man tries his best to make sure the end of a romantic relationship is well thought out, rational, and non-confrontational. However, depending on the woman, messy, emotional, and confrontational may be what he gets. A Cancer or Pisces woman will weep and is likely to create an emotional mess of a breakup.
However, heartbreak usually comes in the form of a partner who's unwilling to work things out. "Because Virgo focuses so much on fixing any potential problems, it can really break their heart if their partner doesn't make them aware of any problems and/or just blindsides them with a breakup," Monahan says.
When a conversation is unavoidable, Virgos are extremely apologetic and quick to alleviate the tension by assuming total and complete responsibility, proclaiming some variation of "It's not you, it's me." When a breakup takes a Virgo by surprise, on the other hand, these earth signs find it hard to let go.
Virgos hold grudges for months, but only if they feel it is necessary. They will always try to work it out with you. But if it doesn't seem possible, they will stop talking to you. They can get over most things quickly, but that depends on whether the other person apologizes sincerely or not.
Those born under the Virgo horoscope tend to know exactly what they want, and when it comes to dating they won't settle until they find a partner who meets their specific criteria. However, sometimes they can be a bit too critical of the people they date, or they may try too hard to change the other person.
Virgos know that even though they achieve perfection in all aspects of life, they can't achieve it in relationships. Hence, they try persistently to make their ex remember them and get back together. All they want is a second chance at relationships.
Instead of being in a really grim state, they try to understand why and how they lost the thing or the person. They will try to rationalise the situation because Virgos don't like to act according to emotions, but logic.
Instead, they tend to show their love through small acts of kindness and support. Virgo men may reach out to you more than usual when they miss you, sharing thoughts, feelings, and experiences through texts, emails, or phone calls.
Virgos are difficult to help out because they love micromanaging, and hate interference but are quite nervous and prone to anxiousness. In that situation, what you should do is give them ideas and space to speak out and vent, but not dictate the terms or criticise their methods. Let them do what they think is best.
Virgos are stressed out easily because they are constantly thinking and they look for perfection in every small detail. Virgos are also very critical of others and themselves, which adds to their dilemma.
Dates: August 23 – September 22. Strengths: Loyal, analytical, kind, hardworking, practical. Weaknesses: Shyness, worry, overly critical of self and others, all work and no play. Virgo Likes: Animals, healthy food, books, nature, cleanliness.
VIRGO: When sad, Virgos become compulsive. They don't prefer to invest their time in depression and sadness and hence, become unresponsive in the face of sadness. But when Virgos become angry, they become blunt and cruel and can disagree with everything you say.
He's not ready for a serious relationship.
A Virgo man often needs a lot of time to himself to figure out what he wants in life. If you are interested in a long-term relationship with him, he may pull away on the first date and the first time you meet because he's not sure if he's ready for that level of commitment.
Sometimes they actually prefer to be ignored because it gives them time to think and work on their own project. Ignoring a Virgo could backfire because they simply may not care. They'll reach out to you in their own time, not because you ignored them, but because they've finished whatever they were doing.
Virgos hold grudges for months, but only if they feel it is necessary. They will always try to work it out with you. But if it doesn't seem possible, they will stop talking to you. They can get over most things quickly, but that depends on whether the other person apologizes sincerely or not.
03/6Virgo. This zodiac sign is one of those signs who enjoys being around people but they often feel drained after a while. They love their time alone and it will not be surprising if you find them losing themselves in writing something or some other activity that makes them better.
Virgos are born perfectionists and have very strong ethics. They are not someone you could push to fall in love with. They take time and the process of falling in love is very gradual; they need to be sure that the person they are attracted to share the same beliefs, values and ethics.