It's common to feel awkward or uncertain when first talking to someone you find attractive. Pay attention to their body language and try opening with a question or sincere compliment. If they don't seem interested in chatting, don't force it — and remember, it's likely not personal.
Maintain a sense of mystery.
Don't call, message, or text him constantly. Give him the time and room to think and wonder about you. Let him be curious about you and what you're doing. Don't ignore him or be rude, but don't always be available.
Men love physical intimacy. Not just sex, even a non-sexual touch is something that can make them go crazy. Cuddling, hugging from behind, playing with their hair or touching their neck gives them a feeling of being loved. All these actions give them a sense of attachment, passion and care which every guy loves.
Physical attraction, sexual compatibility, empathy, and emotional connection are key to making a man fall in love with a woman.
According to James Bauer's book “His Secret Obsession,” a man has a deep secret urge that is more intense and powerful than hunger, and thirst. James refers to this strong biological desire as Hero Instinct. A man wants to feel irreplaceable during this drive.
"I love you a lot." "You are so smart." "Rip my clothes off." Although I'm fairly certain that most men I know would enjoy hearing any of these three four-word sentences from a spouse, there is another sentiment that trumps all of these: "You make me happy."
While physical appearance can initially catch their attention, it is the deeper qualities that truly ignite emotional connection. A genuine sense of humor, intelligence, empathy, and confidence are among the traits that trigger emotional attraction in men.
If he wants to know more about you, it's likely that he's been thinking about you. He may also ask you questions or get your opinion about something to see what you think, which is another major clue that you're often on his mind. If he says, “I was wondering what you like to do for fun.
Develop your style.
You can show off your collarbone, but going below the rib-bone is too much. Show off your personality in your clothes and accessories, this will give guys a clear look into how you are as a person. Try a new look occasionally. Be sure it fits well, and that you like wearing it.
Men prefer a woman who can stay calm and relaxed. Beauty is more than make-up and a fancy haircut. Men find women more attractive when they are neat and clean. Men find women who smell nice, who have clean hair and hydrated skin more attractive than a face perfectly covered in makeup.
The Compliment Text
Here are a couple of such examples of these texts that will make him chase you: "I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your sense of humor." You always manage to make me laugh." "That was such a thoughtful gesture you made yesterday. It really meant a lot to me."
The 12-word text is a texting strategy by James Bauer that allows you to directly target a man's biological instincts. Every man has an innate drive to be a hero. It's an unconscious desire that motivates all his conscious decisions.
The hero instinct is a man's desire to protect his loved ones and feel needed. Relationship specialist James Bauer coined the term in his book His Secret Obsession. Bauer claims that all men have a biological drive to earn your love in order to feel in love with you. Men want to feel that you appreciate and need them.
Heterosexual men tend to be attracted to women who have a youthful appearance and exhibit features such as a symmetrical face, full breasts, full lips, and a low waist–hip ratio.
Guys flirt with girls they like. He might ask you for your number, then call you the next day. He may act playful, wink, and flash a smile at you. If most of your conversations feel flirty, then odds are that he likes you as more than just a friend.