A good way to do this is by letting them spend a week or more in a doggie day care service. They learn that this time will be fun and exciting, but that you always come back. It helps your dog learn social behaviors while also teaching them that they don't need to be tied to you all the time.
1. Teach your dog to expect your return by leaving for only a few seconds at first. I've advised clients to drive their dog to the boarding kennel at least a week before they are leaving. Hand your dog to a kennel worker, or take them to their kennel space and give them a chew treat.
Another study looked at how dogs behaved with people of varying levels of familiarity - their owner, a stranger and a familiar human - and found that dogs clearly miss their owners more than anyone else, and will wait behind the door they left through in anticipation of their return.
Do Dogs Really Miss Their Owners? They do! Various studies have been done on dogs, including brain scans, to determine that dogs displayed negative emotions while their owner was away.
Time passes
Owners often wonder if dogs have a sense of time passing and if our dogs miss us when we are gone. Well, the answer to that is a definite yes. When dogs in one study were left home alone for varying periods of time, they responded with differing levels of enthusiasm on their owner's return.
Whilst this is a natural concern if you'll be gone for weeks, it's not something you need to fear. The truth is that your dog will almost always remember you, however long you've been apart. Dogs don't forget their beloved owners, even after months or even years apart.
It found that dogs definitely feel the excitement when their owners return, but the length of the absence doesn't seem to make a great deal of difference in the level of the emotion. So, your dog knows you're going away, and he's most likely not going along.
Don't worry about your dog while you're away.
Dogs don't have the same concept of time as humans. Whether you're gone for an hour or a week, your pup will greet you enthusiastically when you return. To them, it's not so much that you're leaving — it's that you're coming back.
After a holiday, your dog may suffer from return stress. The main reason for this is that dogs spend more time with their parents during the holidays than he generally does. Once he has returned to his normal routine, however, he has to stay alone for long hours, which can lead to a kind of separation anxiety.
It's normal to feel guilty about leaving your furry friend alone. But, as long as you're still getting their exercise in (especially before you leave) and don't make a big deal about leaving, then your canine companion should do just fine.
A leading dog scientist has suggested that dogs can tell the time using their sense of smell, and that this is the real reason they can also work out to be ready for when their owner returns. Many owners have noticed the phenomenon that their pet is waiting at the door by the time they come back from work.
But does your dog miss you back? Studies show that dogs form positive associations with their favorite people, and they don't like being separated from you for long. Dogs can handle alone time, but they do miss you when you're gone.
When you first arrive home, ignore your dog completely. This means you do not look at them, do not speak to them, do not pet them. For some pups, even telling them “no,” pushing them off, or asking for a Sit right away is rewarding for them, because they are still getting attention from you!
Leaving Your Dog Alone Is Not The Answer
A common myth surrounding separation anxiety is that by somehow ignoring your dog, or by forcing them to be alone for long periods of time, they simply will get used to it, and the disruptive behavior will stop. This couldn't be further from the truth.
Dogs have proved their loyalty towards their owners time and again. They have the sense of reuniting with known characters. This sparks happiness in their brain which makes them behave in an affectionate manner to meet their owners when they get back home after few hours.
The bottom line is, most dogs can't recognize faces on phone screens or tablets. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't FaceTime or Skype with your pets while you're out of town! It won't harm them, and they may even recognize and be comforted by the sound of your voice.
When you kiss your dog, you may notice signs that indicate they know that the kiss is a gesture of affection. As puppies, this is not something that dogs would recognize, although they would feel you doing it. However, as they get older they associate the kisses and cuddles with you being happy with them.
DON'T stay away too long.
Most experts agree you shouldn't leave your adult dog alone for more than eight to 10 hours, but some dogs (especially ones with small bladders) can't last that long.
They may think about their favorite toys or games and may anticipate future playtime with excitement. Dogs have a lot of energy and need regular exercise to stay healthy and happy. They may think about going for a walk or run or playing a game of fetch in the backyard.
Yes, your dog will miss you when you give them away. But dogs are incredibly resilient, and they live in the moment. It is normal for a dog to grieve the loss of their previous family and go through an acclimation period in their new home.
Spend some extra time together.
Spending extra time with your dog before you leave can help both of you. Your dog appreciates all of the time he gets to spend with you! A little goes a long way: a few extra snuggles on the couch or an additional daily walk are a big deal for your dog.
Dogs are social animals and having their person leave them will certainly have an effect on them initially. However, they're also very adaptable creatures who will adjust to having you not around with a good amount of preparation. Another important thing to remember is that dogs pick up on your emotional cues.
If they miss you more than they can bear, your pooch will offer you a few telltale signs. Chewing on your possessions, crying when you leave, and staring at the door after you've gone are all key indicators.