Be upfront and honest.
This can be difficult if you're really shy, but if you've spent time building up confidence, you should feel a little better about confessing. Say something like, "I wanted to tell you something. It's a little hard for me to say, but I think you should know that I have feelings for you."
Telling a shy boy that you like him is tricky because, in a face-to-face encounter, he might get too embarrassed and react differently than he really wants to. You can tell him face-to-face, but make sure that you do it when you two are alone, and well out of sight of any of his or your friends.
Try something like, “I think you're pretty cool, and I'd love to keep hanging out with you.” Or, “I'd like to see where this goes, if that's okay with you.” If you know he gets scared off easily, stay away from anything too intense, like “I have feelings for you” or “I think I'm falling in love with you.”
A shy guy isn't going to come right out and let you know that he likes you - that kind of fails by definition. But if, when you are around, he suddenly seems to have trouble speaking, whether to you or someone else, it could be a sign that your presence causes him stress.
Shy girls may seem mysterious or intriguing. Some men find shy women appealing and feminine. Shy women may appear to have innocent charm. Some men enjoy the concentrated attention of shy women.
Guys flirt with girls they like. He might ask you for your number, then call you the next day. He may act playful, wink, and flash a smile at you. If most of your conversations feel flirty, then odds are that he likes you as more than just a friend.
Guys do not know you are shy. They might think you are scared of them or that you do not like them. They might think you want to be far away from them. When you feel the need to get away or hide your feelings, take a deep breath and pretend you are confident and not shy.
Shy girls may not flirt or express their crush openly. They convey it by stealing glances, blushing, indulging in a conversation, using specific body language, or giving signals through online discussions.
Being shy and awkward around your crush is totally normal. When we have feelings for another person, it's easy to want to be perfect around them and naturally, that puts a lot of pressure on yourself.
Shy guys don't all share the same preferences, and the fact that they are shy doesn't tell you anything about what they find attractive in others. Different shy guys I've known have been attracted to quiet (shy or not) girls, to sporty girls, and to hyper-feminine girls.
Conceal the extent of your feelings for him.
This may make him confess his feelings for you sooner. Give him a chance to miss you or wonder what you're doing. Allow him the opportunity to text or call you first. If he asks you what you're doing over the weekend, be honest, but make your plans sound exciting and rich.
He'll come up with reasons to touch you when he wants to be closer. Physical touch is a crucial way to show affection, and a guy with a crush will look for any excuse to do it! Notice if he touches your arm, bumps into you, or moves to stand next to you. Hugs are also a solid sign he likes you.
If you notice he is making more eye contact with you or you catch a guy staring at you, he is probably attracted to you. He may be enthralled by your good looks and may be fantasizing about kissing you. Perhaps he stares at you and smiles; that could mean he likes you, too.
Men love women who are thoughtful, caring, loving, and kind. A woman who does little things for her man for no other reason other than that she loves him. A woman who makes him smile back whenever she smiles at him. A woman who radiates love and warmth from her heart.
Shy girls seem more trustworthy, vulnerable, and innocent, which makes any guy fall more easily. And quite frankly, a girl's vulnerability can be more appealing than any other aspect when it comes to attracting guys.
To others, you appear modest, empathetic and non-threatening, which are all attractive qualities. So, while shy people will often ponder for a long time before they approach someone, when they do, they tend to have a consistently good experience.
The most popular connotation of “simple” is being low-maintenance. This means that in a courtship or a relationship, you're that type of girl who's not needy of a guy's time and attention.
If a boy really has a crush on you, then he'll be likely to give you all of his attention. He'll turn his body toward you, make eye contact, and won't look around for his other friends or text them during your conversation (unless he uses his phone as a crutch because he's nervous).
If you're wondering, “does he like me or not?” make sure to observe his actions. If he doesn't tell you he's attracted to you, you can tell by his body language and how his eyes move around. He might give you intense eye contact and look at your chest or check you out when you're across the room.