However, heartbreak usually comes in the form of a partner who's unwilling to work things out. "Because Virgo focuses so much on fixing any potential problems, it can really break their heart if their partner doesn't make them aware of any problems and/or just blindsides them with a breakup," Monahan says.
Virgo. At first, Virgos will try to augment their behavior and improve their outlook regarding the breakup. Over time, they'll opt to seek out revenge on their ex if they feel gaslighted by the responses given to them during the demise of the relationship.
Therefore, when a Virgo is experiencing a heartbreak, putting their feelings into songs, poems, stories, etc., gives them relief and a means to express themselves. A breakup severely hurts a Virgo, and they become stubborn about not trying again.
A Virgo man tries his best to make sure the end of a romantic relationship is well thought out, rational, and non-confrontational. However, depending on the woman, messy, emotional, and confrontational may be what he gets. A Cancer or Pisces woman will weep and is likely to create an emotional mess of a breakup.
Letting Go Takes Time
They want to be sure they're doing everything possible to make it work. They also feel a need to make a thoughtful and realistic assessment of what went wrong so they won't make the same mistakes again. All of this mental analysis and processing takes time.
Virgos hold grudges for months, but only if they feel it is necessary. They will always try to work it out with you. But if it doesn't seem possible, they will stop talking to you. They can get over most things quickly, but that depends on whether the other person apologizes sincerely or not.
Virgos are stressed out easily because they are constantly thinking and they look for perfection in every small detail. Virgos are also very critical of others and themselves, which adds to their dilemma.
Virgos know that even though they achieve perfection in all aspects of life, they can't achieve it in relationships. Hence, they try persistently to make their ex remember them and get back together. All they want is a second chance at relationships.
Sometimes they actually prefer to be ignored because it gives them time to think and work on their own project. Ignoring a Virgo could backfire because they simply may not care. They'll reach out to you in their own time, not because you ignored them, but because they've finished whatever they were doing.
There are no guarantees with this sign. Virgo is extraordinarily self-contained, so nothing you do may touch him. He may already have moved on. But if anything is to reach him, this will: show up and do the work.
If he knows you're someone who will be there for him, he'll miss you. These men aren't always emotional, but they're sensitive and take time to open up. If they choose you as someone worth their time, it's not to be taken lightly. Make sure you show him you're there to help just as much as he is.
Virgos are normally very patient. They will usually let go of small things, and not get very angry easily. Only major things can trigger a Virgo.
But, when a Virgo falls out of love, their passiveness may lead to them staying in a relationship longer than they want. If your Virgo suddenly isn't working toward something with you, like committing to a new show to watch, an exercise plan, or budget, that is a red flag.
VIRGO: When sad, Virgos become compulsive. They don't prefer to invest their time in depression and sadness and hence, become unresponsive in the face of sadness. But when Virgos become angry, they become blunt and cruel and can disagree with everything you say.
Normally meticulous and organized, sadness is a mess a Virgo might not readily know how to clean up. They're easily consumed by their desire to overanalyze a situation and by being too critical. They also can't always find the right words to explain their feelings to others.
03/6Virgo. This zodiac sign is one of those signs who enjoys being around people but they often feel drained after a while. They love their time alone and it will not be surprising if you find them losing themselves in writing something or some other activity that makes them better.
Virgos don't like to end relationships, so he'll try to motivate you to end it. He won't hug you, kiss you, or say “I love you”—instead, he'll try to push you to your limit. If he isn't treating you with love and respect, he's probably trying to convince you to end things.
To make your Virgo man jealous, you should have other things in your life that are important, even more important than him. Beyond keeping an active social life, stay ambitious in your career and develop hobbies.
When a conversation is unavoidable, Virgos are extremely apologetic and quick to alleviate the tension by assuming total and complete responsibility, proclaiming some variation of "It's not you, it's me." When a breakup takes a Virgo by surprise, on the other hand, these earth signs find it hard to let go.
Those born under the Virgo horoscope tend to know exactly what they want, and when it comes to dating they won't settle until they find a partner who meets their specific criteria. However, sometimes they can be a bit too critical of the people they date, or they may try too hard to change the other person.
Virgos are known to keep things orderly and organized. The same sentiment rings true when dealing with their emotions. Therefore, being pushed over the edge and having to expose their inner frustrations (which could lead to out of control behavior) is what deeply scares them.
07/13Virgo
Virgos like perfection. Whatever they do, they expect the best. Therefore, when things don't work out their way, they become bitter, which is why they're likely to develop Borderline Personality Disorder. This mental health disorder influences the way a person thinks or feels about themself.
Virgos have a strong desire for perfection and may worry about making mistakes or not achieving perfection in their work, relationships, or other areas of their life. This perfectionistic tendency can create stress and anxiety as they strive for flawlessness.