how to attract someone who is not interested (based on attraction psychology)
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Why do guys ignore the girl they like?
Fear of Rejection
This fear can hold a guy back from interacting with a woman until he sees clear and visible signs that she is interested. Responding to a woman's messages and advances are opportunities for him to see these signs, but he might also worry he's reading into feelings that aren't there.
If he has stopped bothering about his looks/personality, doesn't care about his behavior, or has stopped making an effort to be romantic, he probably is losing interest. He becomes unenthusiastic and unconcerned, unlike the man you fell in love with.
If your partner no longer initiates contact with you, doesn't pay attention, avoids planning the future with you, only meets up for sex, and so on, these could be signs he is not into you anymore. It's painful to realize that the guy you love isn't interested in you, but it's time to move on.
Losing interest or pleasure in activities or people that once gave you enjoyment, may be due to overworking, relationship problems or being in a temporary rut. However, a loss of interest in many things or people, that is ongoing, can sometimes be a sign you have a mental health condition.
Ignoring a guy could make him want you more and it is the oldest trick in the book. It may sound counterintuitive, but it can be an effective way to get his attention and make him take notice of you. But there is a catch it can backfire resulting in him pulling away if you did not do it the right way.
One clear power move that a man will do to you when he's trying to test your patience? He'll ignore you for days at a time, not giving you any updates on where he is, what he's been up to, or whether or not he's even still alive.
He might be unhappy or irritated about something, or he could be attempting to avoid you. It also holds to reason that he might have lost interest in the relationship and is gradually trying to pull away. The first step to take when someone ignores you isn't to rush to conclusions.
Language. The biggest indication of a man's intentions is the language he uses. If you start getting a little sexy talk going on during the first few dates, there is a good chance he's testing the waters for some sexy time later on.
He may start chasing you more. He will think it's his fault you are ignoring him and will think you are worth the chase. A cold shoulder from you may even pique his interest in you. If this has been your game all along, then sure it can work.
How do you talk to someone who is not interested in you?
Text or email if that works better. Write him a line if talking in person is too awkward, painful, or counterproductive. Give yourself the chance to put yourself in his shoes while reading it over and rephrase your message if needed. Give him the chance to process what you have to say without feeling put on the spot.
If he's affectionate, pays attention to you, and puts effort into the relationship, you might be overthinking the situation. If he frequently cancels plans with no explanation or apology, ignores you, and doesn't initiate conversations, he might be losing interest.
