The ability to regenerate and rise from the ashes requires symbolic death, but that doesn't mean breakups are easy for Scorpios. In fact, they have an extremely difficult time letting go. Whether a Scorpio initiates or not, they always feel jilted after a breakup.
Scorpios are passionate lovers. The way they care for their partners or the way they love is sincere and awe-inspiring. And maybe that's why they're always haunted by the memories of their ex-lovers.
Scorpios do not place their trust on someone easily, but once you enter a Scorpio's life, you never truly leave. This is precisely what happens with their past loves, for they simply choose to keep them around as friends.
The single most important thing about a Scorpio in love is that they never love you half-heartedly. So they may continue to try to contact you after the breakup.
He will go through all the stages, from denial to acceptance. He will likely attack his partner and blame her for the failing. He may also try to win her back through all sort of manipulations. Possibly, closure will be sought through a rebound relationship.
The worst thing that a Scorpio does after a break-up is build a wall around his emotions and isolate himself completely. But he would keep a keen eye on his ex-partner's life and there are chances that he would resurface like a ghost from the past. It takes a Scorpio a long time to get over a break-up.
With their characteristic emotional reserve, Geminis can often break a Scorpio's heart. Geminis' reluctance to express their feelings can frustrate Scorpios. Geminis' flighty nature can harm Scorpio's desire for emotional depth and commitment.
Your Scorpio man will begin to regret not being in your life as a result of this. More than any other sign, this one calls for seclusion since it is so overwhelming and intense.
Your Scorpio man will be nearly 100 percent confident that he still has feelings for you, making him the most likely to return to your failed relationship after a split with or without communication.
For a Scorpio, it's extremely hard to deal with an inner turmoil. And when they feel that they have lost interest in you, they'll panic and become very defensive. They'll avoid confrontations but will also initiate unnecessary discussions about the things that are going wrong in your relationship.
Toward the end when a Scorpio man is ready to end things, he'll get ready to move on. Once he's pulled the plug on your relationship, he simply won't stick around. There may be a brief explanation of his desire to leave you, but he won't attempt to console you for very long or stay in touch.
Scorpios are legendary for intense break-ups that last for years, with epic drama involving rage and revenge. One Scorpio love tip is to keep it casual and let him share personal details on his own time. If he's interested in you, he'll get in touch.
In the majority of instances, the no-contact rule is most effective when both parties are aware of and agree to it. In this way, your Scorpio man will not believe you are neglecting him or being unkind. Set up a phone or in-person meeting with him and inform him of your plans.
A broken-hearted Scorpion is likely to hold contempt towards and bitterness for the person who, in their eyes, betrayed them. The breakup is probably going to hurt them and leave them completely devastated. Even the kindest Scorpio is most likely to struggle in forgetting their ex if you betray their trust.
Scorpio men are often nostalgic.
If you two have shared some good times together, send him a text or a pic about them as a fun reminder. The more he thinks about all the fun stuff you've done in the past, the more he'll start to miss you and want to create new memories.
Scorpio men value their privacy and don't often share personal thoughts. If he starts reaching out to you more often, it's likely he misses you. He might send texts, call, or even leave you little notes. Increased communication is a clear sign he's thinking about you.
After a breakup, it's likely that the Scorpio man won't talk to you at all. He'll need space from you so that he can get over the breakup himself, and seeing you or speaking to you would hinder his healing. Or make him want to come back to you for the wrong reasons—simply because he misses being with you.
Scorpio cry to prove that they are the one victimized. To put it simply, they trick others by crying. They also cry when they are left alone and have no one to baby sit them. Loneliness is something of which scorpions are afraid of.
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Not only do they not trust anyone but they won't let anyone else figure out their thoughts easily. They will keep their feelings hidden until someone very special walks into their lives, making them believe in love, trust and understanding.
Scorpios, when hurt, will sting.
The Scorpio sting is a defense mechanism. If your Scorpio gets snippy or downright cruel (as they can), try to reach through that hard shell and touch upon the real reason they are upset.
Since Scorpios go all-in, they tend to get hurt when their partner doesn't do the same. Cheating and dishonesty are obviously huge no-no's. They'll also get upset if their partner doesn't open up to them emotionally.
Many think that Scorpio's opposite, Taurus, would be a bad match, but it's Libras that drive Scorpios crazy for being noncommittal, indecisive, and flirtatious. Scorpios can flirt (in a mysterious kind of way) but can't tolerate their partners doing the same.
Scorpio Soulmate Sign: Virgo
The most attentive Scorpio soulmate sign, Virgo fulfills all the expectations of the Scorpions. Ruled by Mercury (God of communication), Virgo knows very well how to understand the technicalities of Scorpio's elusive mind. Together, they create a practical and passionate bond.
A Scorpio for sure has a sex swing somewhere in their apartment, but what's nice about Scorpios is that they're the right combination of passionate, but not clingy. They're too moody to date on the reg, so for a one-night stand, they're perfect.