To get your rabbit to "kiss" you (lick your face/hand), build trust by spending time on their level, offer gentle grooming, use treats as positive reinforcement with a "kiss" cue, and be patient, as it's a learned behavior that depends on their personality, but some bunnies will naturally groom you as a sign of affection and bonding.
The 3-3-3 rule for rabbits (and other pets) is a guideline for adjusting to a new home: 3 Days for the rabbit to feel overwhelmed and hide, 3 Weeks to start settling in and showing personality, and 3 Months to feel truly at home and build a strong bond. It helps adopters manage expectations, understand that fear and skittishness are normal, and encourages patience as the bunny decompresses in its new environment, emphasizing providing a safe space and routine.
If your rabbit doesn't lick you, it's easy to worry that they might not be fond of you. However, every rabbit has their own unique way of expressing affection, so if your rabbit isn't much of a licker, that doesn't mean they don't cherish your bond.
Cuddle with rabbits by petting them on the floor. Once your rabbit trusts you, try lying down next to them, hugging them, or training your rabbit to hop into your lap. Above all, you should avoid cuddling your rabbit by holding them since this will cause anxiety.
Signs of a stressed rabbit include body language like ears pinned back, a tense hunched posture, wide eyes, and stillness, combined with behavioral changes such as hiding excessively, aggression (biting, lunging), destructive bar biting, changes in eating/toileting, restlessness, rapid breathing, or unusual vocalizations like grunting. These signals, often a prey animal's reaction to feeling threatened or unhappy, need prompt attention as chronic stress can cause serious health issues.
Older Rabbit Behaviour
If your bunny lives indoors with you, you may also notice them becoming clingier and more affectionate. The downside of ageing brings its problems too. Your bunny will still want to use their litter tray, but they can sometimes find getting in and out of them a bit tricky.
Rabbits will groom each other to show love and dominance If you see more than one rabbit living together, you might notice that they will often lick each other.
Never pick rabbits up by their ears.
This is extremely stressful for them and is highly likely to injure them.
Nudging, head butting or rubbing against you is rabbit body language for loving attention. 'Give them a stroke or cuddle, or what you know they enjoy', says Rosie. 'Rubbing their faces against you is a way of sharing their scent profile, and showing that you really are friends.
Rabbits are sociable creatures that can form deep bonds with their human companions.
Rabbits need unlimited access to grass and hay, so they shouldn't ever be left without food. However, if it's an emergency and there's no other choice, then they can go up to 12 hours without eating.
In answer to the question what animal eats rabbits, the most common that springs to mind is the fox. But there are numerous others including pet dogs and cats, birds of prey, stoats, weasels, ferrets, badgers and snakes.
The best way to gain your rabbits' trust is by simply spending lots of time being near them, while allowing your bunnies to approach you in their own time. By sitting quietly with them in a safe enclosure, you'll show your rabbits that you aren't to be feared and that you can be trusted.
If your rabbits look tucked up and quiet with their chins tucked in and noses not twitching this can be a sure sign of them feeling unhappy or stressed, as this is not a normal position for a rabbit. Moving or running away. Your rabbits may turn and move away from you (or each other) if they're unhappy.
Areas To Avoid
Most rabbits do not like their tails, stomach, or feet touched. Unlike dogs and cats, rabbits are prey animals and may or may not enjoy being picked up.
Basic Handling
Always support a rabbit's hind end- they have very powerful back muscles and if they kick their legs too hard they could actually break their own back. It's best to handle rabbits while wrapped in a towel.
Zoonotic diseases associated with rabbits include pasteurellosis, ringworm, mycobacteriosis, cryptosporidiosis and external parasites. Rabbits can transmit bacteria through bites and scratches.
The 3-3-3 rule for rabbits (and other pets) is a guideline for adjusting to a new home: 3 Days for the rabbit to feel overwhelmed and hide, 3 Weeks to start settling in and showing personality, and 3 Months to feel truly at home and build a strong bond. It helps adopters manage expectations, understand that fear and skittishness are normal, and encourages patience as the bunny decompresses in its new environment, emphasizing providing a safe space and routine.
Rabbits who listened to soft classical or new-age music appeared more relaxed. Surprisingly, they were even calmer than rabbits kept in complete silence! These music-loving buns showed fewer signs of stress, like thumping, hiding, or overgrooming.
Personality Differences
Male rabbits are generally friendlier and more likely to bond with their owners early on. They're also known for their trusting nature, making them a delight to interact with. On the other hand, female rabbits can be a bit more stubborn and less inclined to trust immediately.
While individual personality varies, breeds often cited as very friendly and docile include the Holland Lop, Mini Lop, and Rex, known for being cuddly, playful, and good with families, alongside large breeds like the Flemish Giant, nicknamed the "gentle giant" for their calm nature, and the Lionhead, known for its easy-going temperament.
Rabbits aren't “starter pets”—they're high-maintenance, long-term commitments. While healthy adult rabbits will typically use a litterbox to do their business, they do a lot of business—and you will have to keep their box clean by changing it at least every other day.