She is probably feeling insecure around you and trying to make herself feel more confident by playing hard to get. Some women need to do this to feel confident around guys. She just wants to see how interested in her you really are. She wants to see if you will lose interest if she stops showing interest in you.
Turns out science can shed some light on how playing hard to get could actually benefit you. In a recent study published in Psychological Science, women were more attracted when they were uncertain if a guy liked them a lot than when they were sure a guy really liked them.
Who likes sex faster? Following the belief that women are more likely to enjoy slow sex, it was fully expected that men would crave "fast sex" more often. But women surprised us by reporting that they preferred a faster pace more often than men.
The researchers discovered that making the chase harder increased a potential mate's desirability. “Playing hard to get makes it seem as if you are more in demand—we call that having higher mate value,” says Harry Reis, a professor of psychology and Dean's Professor in Arts, Sciences & Engineering at Rochester.
Summary: Researchers examined the effects of playing hard to get, a mating strategy that is likely to instill a certain degree of uncertainty. In a new study they show that making the chase harder increases a potential mate's desirability.
Inspire a girl's confidence in you by giving her your complete attention during a conversation. Make direct eye contact, nod and react while she is talking, and repeat things back to her to convey that you are listening. This will work to make you look charismatic and empathetic to her.
Arousal is the process of your body and mind 'getting ready' for a sexual encounter, and it can be easily interrupted by anxiety. Arousal difficulties can be caused by many things, including performance anxiety, negative body image, relationship difficulties, mental health issues, and hormone levels, to name a few.
From time to time, men are likely to experience random erections. A random erection is an erection that occurs without sexual stimulation. Random erections are normal. Teenagers and young adults are more likely to get random erections, though they can occur in adult men too.
Flirt with him (a little).
Just make eye contact, smile, and exchange a few playful words before you say you have to get going. Don't be rude; just don't be too enthusiastic, either. Play with your hair while you talk to him. Laugh and look at the floor; let him see you blush just a bit.
Talking to people other than the intended mate, flirting with them, or even dating other people. Giving accidental physical contact, but offering limited physical affection and withholding sex. Acting sarcastic but friendly; teasing, playing games and taunting. Making others work to get them and chase them.
“What the scarcity principle says is that people are more attracted to those options or opportunities that are rare, unique or dwindling in availability,” Dr. Cialdini said.
People with penises have an average of 11 erections per day and three to five more each night, but everyone is different. There are numerous factors that can affect how often you get hard, like your age, hormone levels, and lifestyle.
ED can happen at any age, but it's more common in older men. By the time a man is in his 40s, he has about a 40% chance of having experienced ED. That risk increases by about 10% for each decade of life—a 50% chance in his 50s, a 60% chance in his 60s, and so on (Ferrini, 2017).
Losing an erection or being unable to become erect often results from nerves, anxiety, or using alcohol or other drugs. Sometimes men worry about performance, and sometimes they're anxious about whether or not having intercourse is the right decision, or whether they're with the right partner.
A new study found men actually fall in love quicker than women, and the reason could be biological. A study of 172 college students found men reported falling in love earlier than women and expressing that sentiment first.
Girls like guys that show respect to them, their friends, and other people. Support her dreams and desires. Be willing to help her along the way to achieving her goals. It is important for girls to know that they have someone who is in their corner and will provide encouragement when they want to do something.
Summary. Women tend to prefer men with fit, athletic bodies. These ideal male bodies are significantly leaner and stronger than average, but not as lean and strong as most men wish to be, and certainly not as muscular as most bodybuilders.