Power, money, and biology may play a role in initial attraction to older men, but that illusion doesn't last. The notion that men get more attractive with age is not exactly true, according to developmental psychologist Michelle Drouin says.
- In the study, men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan.
The reason is because of male androgen secretions. Before the age of 50, testosterone causes increased oil production. As a result, men's skin may naturally age better but will also be more susceptible to adult acne. Women have less oily skin due to estrogen dominance.
To keep your skin from adding years to your looks, wear sunscreen, moisturizer, and lip balm daily. Retinoids can help you slough off old skin cells. You can find them in many over-the-counter products or get a stronger version by prescription from a dermatologist.
Dos and Don'ts for Looking Older (for Men)
Choose button-down shirts over t-shirts. Deal with your acne. Bulk up by working out—put on some muscle to look older. Don't wear tight-fitting shirts or t-shirts.
At what age are men considered to be in their prime? Physically, early to mid-20s. Intellectually and emotionally, men start to fully mature about age 40. And if you take good care of yourself, physical abilities can remain intact far longer than many suppose.
Men's sex drives seem to peak in their 20s and begin to slowly decrease in their 30s and onward. Men in their 40s and older are also more likely to have problems with sexual function, including erectile dysfunction. Men have less sex as they get older, but that is only half the story.
A good, short men's haircut is often key when it comes to looking fresh and even younger. With just a few snips, you can turn an average cut into an updated, cool style.
Loss of bone mass in the jaw reduces the size of the lower face and makes your forehead, nose, and mouth more pronounced. Your nose may also lengthen slightly. The ears may lengthen in some people (probably caused by cartilage growth).
Sleep and eat well.
Getting plenty of sleep prevents puffy eyes, dark circles, and sallow skin . Eating a balanced, whole-food diet will help you manage your weight and give you the energy you need to keep up with the younger guys (or leave them in the dust). And certain foods can give you a more youthful appearance.
Dress Up In A Classic Way
First of all, slight overdressing will always be better than slight under dressing because it makes you look more mature. At the same time, when in doubt, always upgrade from casual to something more classic and maybe formal. In my opinion, the best way to appear older is to wear a suit.