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A kiss on the cheek or a peck is a friendly gesture, which does not imply any serious romantic inclination. It only means that they like you but will never be drawn to you romantically.
Cheek kissing is acceptable between parents and children, family members (though not often two adult males), couples, two female friends or a male friend and a female friend. Cheek kissing between two men who are not a couple is unusual but socially acceptable if both men are happy to take part.
Remember not to actually kiss the person on the cheek. Instead, gently rest your cheek against theirs and kiss the air. There are a select few individuals who insist on kissing others squarely on the cheek, leaving you to peck the air miles away from their face, but thankfully such experiences are far and few between.
A kiss on the cheek can be flirty depending on the circumstances, but it's more often a sign of affection.
Yes, kissing is cheating.
And you know I don't mean a kiss on the cheek when you're saying bye to a best friend. A kiss, with tongue or without, that sparks something more is definitely cheating. Kissing is cheating. Done.
As for the age-old dilemma, "to kiss or not to kiss," if you're having trouble reading your date's cues or you can't tell whether a kiss would be appropriate or not, it's always best to err on the side of caution on a first date, especially with someone you've met online. A warm hug and even a cheek kiss are fine.
Give them a peck on the cheek if you want to take it slow.
Even if you really like someone, it's completely normal to feel nervous about your first real kiss. If you still want to give them a kiss but aren't ready for a full makeout session, try a quick peck on the cheek instead so they know you're still into them.
General Guidelines (No Matter Where You Are)
In most countries where cheek kissing is the norm, you usually offer your right cheek first. No big deal if you both go in opposite directions — just laugh it off. Generally speaking, an air kiss is an air kiss. When in doubt, avoid planting your lips on the other person.
Remember not to actually kiss the person on the cheek. Instead, gently rest your cheek against theirs and kiss the air. There are a select few individuals who insist on kissing others square on the cheek, leaving you to peck the air miles away from their face, but thankfully such experiences are far and few between.
The general guidelines for a social kiss are:
A social kiss is usually from right cheek to right cheek. But sometimes, depending on the culture and tradition of a country or region, it is from the left cheek to the left cheek. If you're in another country, take the cue from them… and, good luck with that!
Generally it's a sign of respect and or care. That respect and or care may not be genuine but more often than not it is. It can be a sign of thanks and appreciation. It can also be that that kisser wants to give you a good proper romantic kiss but is too afraid to do so.
: the act or an instance of fluttering one's eyelashes against another person's skin. "… I've invented a new way of kissing. You do it with your eye-lashes." "I've known that for years. It's called a butterfly kiss." Evelyn Waugh.
A long kiss releases dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, feel-good chemicals that will make him smile. A single smile produces endorphins, another hormone that lifts his mood. Endorphins also create a “feedback loop” that will make him smile over and over.
Ease back out of the kiss, keeping yourself close to your partner's face. After the kiss, pull your head back slowly to give each of you some space. If you wrapped a hand around each other, you can lightly ease off, or hold each other close for a more intimate moment. Look your partner in the eyes and smile.
What is la bise? La bise is a French greeting where two people kiss each other's cheeks two, three, and even four times.
Try this: Lean towards someone and offer them your cheek. Give them eye contact while tapping your cheek. If your partner responds to that, try tapping on other parts of your face or body. Write your request on a piece of paper and pass it on a note.
While cheek kissing is a common greeting in many cultures, each country has a unique way of kissing. In Slovenia, Serbia, Macedonia, Montenegro, Russia, the Netherlands, Switzerland, Poland and Lebanon, it is customary to "kiss three times, on alternate cheeks".
Love is in the air
No need to wait for the official first date to get a little face time, however. Americans agree kids are ready for their first kiss at age 15 (15.1 on average), while on average, they had theirs at age 14.5. But first, let's talk about sex.
Kiss on whichever date you feel comfortable. Many people wait until the end of a first, second, or third date; this gives you time to get to know each other. Gauge your date's interest before planting one to make sure they're receptive to kissing. If you're not positive they're up for it, ask.
Kiss someone when you feel ready, regardless of how old you are. Around ages 12-15, people often start having their first kiss. Don't feel pressured by other people your age kissing people, and don't rush into kissing someone if you are apprehensive. You'll know intuitively when the time feels right.
Not every first kiss, though, is a great kiss. They can be awkward, especially if the moment is not right or even forced. Even still, we are physically wired to tell the difference between a bad kiss from a good kisser and a "this does nothing for me" lipsmack.
A lot of people are nervous about the first kiss, so that can make it awkward. Whether you are the one initiating it or the one on the receiving end, nerves can get in the way and make it a bad first kiss.
Consider the situation.
You can totally agree with your S.O. that all kisses are cheating, or maybe you decide it's all about the intent. If it's for a game, then it's OK, but if you're kissing someone due to your attraction to them, that may be crossing the line.