To say "hello" in puppy language, use calm body language, get low, avoid direct eye contact, and offer slow, gentle petting on the chest or side, as puppies communicate through scent, subtle movements, and a relaxed demeanor rather than loud barks or direct stares. A slow sniff (like a sniff toward their nose) can mimic a greeting, but focus on being a non-threatening, gentle presence to make them feel safe.
Reward for the sit. Have the person start the greeting being at the dogs level (ie kneeling on the floor) and petting on the chest. Dogs like to greet at the face so being down on ground level helps to curb the urge to jump. If you can't make it there yet, I would start with distance first.
Use a calm, low-pitched tone of voice and short clipped words. High-pitched upset voices can sound whiny and send the wrong signals that you are not in charge. Use the same words for the same thing each time so your pup learns your language with repetition.
The 3-3-3 rule for dogs is a guideline for the adjustment period after adoption, outlining three phases: 3 Days (decompression, feeling overwhelmed/scared), 3 Weeks (starting to settle in, learning routine, personality emerges), and 3 Months (feeling secure, bonded, and truly at home). It helps new owners manage expectations and be patient as their rescue dog transitions, emphasizing calm energy, routine, and space in the early days to build trust.
Every pup should know the 7 Basic Common commands: SIT, STAY, DOWN, COME, OFF, HEEL, and NO.
The 777 Puppy Rule (or Rule of 7s) is a guideline for puppy socialization, suggesting that by seven weeks old, a puppy should experience seven different Surfaces, seven different Sounds, seven different Objects, seven different People, seven different Locations, seven different Containers, and seven different Challenges, all in positive, short, and safe ways to build confidence and resilience. It helps prevent fear and reactivity by creating positive associations with novel experiences during the critical socialization window (around 4-16 weeks).
The touch of love. Just touching your dog releases oxytocin in you and your dog, so a soothing massage, gentle grooming session, or extended petting time will tell your dog in no uncertain terms how much you love them. In particular, rubbing your dog's ears works to release oxytocin in their body.
The hardest "commandment" (command) to teach a dog is often considered Recall ("Come"), due to powerful natural instincts to explore or play, followed by impulse control commands like "Leave It/Drop It", and complex obedience actions like the "Finish" (positioning at the handler's side) or "Heel", requiring intense focus and self-control, especially with distractions like other dogs or interesting sights/smells.
The 10-10-10 rule for puppy potty training is a specific routine: 10 minutes outside in the designated potty spot, staying 10 feet away from the house/play area, followed by 10 minutes of focused supervision indoors to prevent accidents before the next potty break, creating a consistent cycle for success. This method ensures the puppy has ample time to eliminate and minimizes mistakes by closely monitoring them afterward, reinforcing good habits consistently.
An hour for a dog feels much longer than an hour for a human because dogs perceive time more slowly due to their faster metabolism and heightened awareness of routines, so a 10-minute wait can feel like 70 minutes to them, and your hour-long absence feels like an eternity, though they don't grasp clock time but rather the intervals between events like meals, walks, and your return.
Be ready with treats and squeaker toys/sounds to redirect the dogs' attention back to you if needed. Ideally, a successful dog introduction will involve appropriate social interaction between dogs; however, social indifference is ok too.
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Dogs are scent driven, and when they approach you, allow them to smell you without reaching, talking or leaning in. Just neutral and very calm. After they're done sniffing you, if the dog shows that they want affection, give it. Pet slow, gentle, on the chest side or shoulders, and avoid fast over the head movements.
Wait until your dog turns toward you and say his name in a happy tone. Acknowledge the name with a clicker or word to let your pup know this is the right reaction (“Yes!” and “Good!”) and immediately give him praise and treats. Repeat several times a day and your pal will turn toward you every time he hears his name.
The hardest months with a puppy often center around two key periods: 3-5 months (teething, regression, lack of impulse control) and 6-12 months (adolescence), when hormone surges bring boundary testing, stubbornness, and increased energy, making training and housebreaking challenging as they become "teenagers". Expect frustration with accidents, nipping, chewing, and defiance during these phases as their brains develop, requiring patience and consistent training.
How do dogs choose their favourite people? There are several factors that may influence your dog to choose one person over another, although, in general, they will always prefer those members of the household who devote more time to them and, above all, who are synonymous with positive experiences for them.
Affection. Of course, licking can absolutely be a sign of affection too. As much as dogs will lick their owners for attention, they are seeking attention from you because they want to interact with you. You're also pretty tasty to your dog, especially with your post-workout salty skin!
Red flag puppy behaviors signal serious issues beyond normal puppy antics, including aggression (growling, snapping, biting, lunging), extreme fear/anxiety (intense cowering, hiding, refusing treats, constant escape attempts, shutting down), resource guarding (guarding food/toys with aggression), and severe separation anxiety (destructive behavior when alone). Recognizing these early and seeking professional help from a trainer or vet is crucial, as these often stem from trauma or lack of socialization and won't just disappear with age.
The 3-second rule for puppies (and dogs) is a guideline for positive greetings and interactions, suggesting initial meetings or petting sessions last no more than three seconds before pausing, allowing the dog to choose to re-engage, which helps build confidence, reduce overstimulation, and prevent negative reactions like fear or aggression. It teaches dogs that social contact is on their terms, using short, controlled sniff-and-greet intervals (3 seconds), then disengaging, and repeating as needed, while also being used for petting to let dogs signal they want more.
Well-socialized puppies are more likely to grow up to be friendly adult dogs who are easy to handle and not overly frightened or stressed. The best time to socialize a puppy is from 3 to 14 weeks of age. This is when puppies are most open to new experiences and thirsty to learn.
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The "3 C's of dog training" aren't universal, but common interpretations focus on Criteria, Consequences, Consistency, essential for operant conditioning, or on handler mindset as Calm, Clarity, Consistency, emphasizing clear communication and emotional regulation for effective learning and a strong bond, with other versions highlighting Control, Calm, Connection. Essentially, they all boil down to clear, consistent, and emotionally grounded training methods for success.
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