Keep your gaze on the horizon while walking. Doing so makes you appear more approachable and sociable.
Don't be afraid to be expressive through your eyes. Widening them in surprise, or narrowing them when you're skeptical, shows that you're engaged and paying attention.
Make your intentions clear. You don't have to say something blunt like, "I want you." Casually interject that she is "good-looking," or "stunning," or something along those lines to show you find her attractive. ...
Respect her ideas, her opinions, and her beliefs. Girls like it when you treat them like people. If you want girls to find you attractive, respecting them as people is a great place to start. For example, ask her about her favorite hobby, and then ask her how she got into that hobby.
Listen to music she puts on, or foods she likes, then give some vague approval like “Good call. I love this song.” This can also work when paying simple compliments. A polite “I like that shirt” or “You look nice today” suggests you are paying attention to what she is doing.
When you spend time with someone and share vulnerabilities, it's easy to develop feelings of closeness and attraction. These positive feelings can develop into a crush, even when the other person is romantically unavailable. Traits such as kindness, intelligence, and a great sense of humor can fuel a crush.
This will communicate that you are interested in speaking to her. Keep smiling with open body language so she knows this is a friendly look, not a threatening stare. The longer she maintains eye contact, the more likely it is that she may be interested in meeting you.
Not everyone will show their cards right away, and there might be a good reason why she's hiding her feelings from you. Maybe she's uncertain about your feelings for her. Maybe you're good friends and she doesn't want to make things weird. Maybe she's in a relationship and doesn't want to stir the boat.
“If she's nodding and smiling, but not really contributing to the conversation, she's just being polite,” says Tessina. “If she's leaning back and not really engaging you, she's just being polite. If she's glancing around, she's just being polite.”
