He gives you his undivided attention He will have his eyes only on you, talk only to you, and listen only to you, for the most part. And when you speak, he will directly focus on you and listen to everything you have to say. When you become his sole focus, it's one of the telltale signs he is flirting.
When he is flirting with you, he may lean closer towards you while you and he are speaking. He may angle his body towards you, make eye contact, keep his feet faced in your direction, or tilt his head while he talks to you. These body language cues signal one thing: He is very much into you!
Looking into your eyes while you're talking (Eye contact flirting signs are really important.) Bringing you your favorite coffee or make excuses to see you. Being a shoulder to lean on. Putting other guys down, especially one of your love interests.
Teasing is one of the biggest ways that a man can flirt with you. If he makes fun of you lightly for your clothes, for how you walk, how you laugh, or for any of the other things about you that he actually just thinks are really adorable, then he's definitely flirting with you.
Guys that are into you often use lots of emojis, text first, or even double text. Watch for in-person signs, like holding eye contact, respectful little touches, or leaning in close. A follow-up text after a date or hangout, or a raincheck when he can't make it are sure signs that he wants to spend more time with you.
Guys who truly wish to make an impression and demonstrate to a girl that they are really interested in her will make an effort to listen attentively when she talks. They will even go further than this and ask questions to try and show even more interest.
A flirty guy will talk about his love life, best date, romantic nights, and related topics. The reason is to allow you to have a glimpse into his romantic side. If he is friendly: A friendly guy will talk about his interests, hobbies, work, etc. They will rarely mention anything related to their love life.
Physical flirts are big on touching. They'll lean into you, adjust their stance toward you, play with their hair or put focus on their mouth—this style of flirting is sexually charged, to say the least.
“If a man teases or makes fun of you that is a sign that he is completely comfortable around you,” says Flicker. He's also paid enough attention to “pick up on what you would be secure and insecure about.”
Research identifies five main styles of flirting: physical, sincere, playful, traditional, and polite. The physical style is associated with expressing interest through physical behavior.
A friendly guy will definitely make eye contact during conversation—it's only the polite thing to do, after all—but if he looks at you randomly from afar, he's interested. If you ever catch him trying to sneak a peek at a part of your body other than your eyes while you do talk, he's definitely interested.
Playful flirting involves teasing and bantering with the other person in a lighthearted and fun way. It may involve making jokes or puns, using sarcasm, or engaging in witty banter. Playful flirting can help to create a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere and can be a good way to break the ice.
Men who are attracted to you might even engage in more touch. If a man actively tries to touch you during your interaction, it may mean he wants to get closer to you or close the distance between you two.
Women take a passive role, receiving attentions warmly but without taking on any risk of rejection or making a bad impression. Their flirting is limited to indulgences like prolonged eye-contact, and "other nonverbal behaviours" (think twirling your hair and pretending to laugh).
Subtle flirting involves using discreet, understated gestures or verbal cues to signal interest and attraction without being overt or aggressive. Subtle flirting can help create intrigue and maintain a sense of mystery during the early stages of a flirtatious interaction.
The first thing anyone notices about another person is definitely their looks and their appearance. Even in matters of love, the basic thing that attracts a guy to a girl is their guise and the way they look. However, that is not the only factor that appeals to eyes of men.
Men are attracted to women who are physically attractive, and have a healthy body image. A man wants his woman to be happy with her own body, so he won't be jealous or insecure about it. He wants her to love herself as much as he does. The best way for a woman to do that is by eating well and exercising regularly.
Making you laugh or smile is his M.O.
Love and relationship coach, Dr. Lurve says him clearly going out of his way to make you giggle is a classic "he likes you" sign. If he's not afraid to be silly for the sake of your smile, there's probably more than friendship under his jokes.