Do older men last shorter in bed?

Not necessarily; while some older men may experience quicker ejaculation due to physiological changes (like hormonal shifts or ED), many also develop better ejaculatory control, allowing them to last longer, so it's a mixed bag depending heavily on overall health, lifestyle, and individual factors rather than just age. Younger men often struggle with excitement leading to rapid ejaculation, while older men might face challenges with erection firmness, but can also gain better orgasm control, balancing out the "lasting longer" equation.

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Do older men take longer to finish?

With aging, ejaculation takes longer. Psychological conditions, such as depression or anxiety. Medical conditions, such as diabetes or multiple sclerosis. Certain medical treatments, such as prostate surgery.

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At what age do men have trouble staying hard?

Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is the inability to get and maintain an erection. Erectile dysfunction is a very common condition, particularly in older men. It is estimated that half of all men between the ages of 40 and 70 will have it to some degree.

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Do men come faster as they age?

PE and Age

For some older men, erections may not be as firm or as large. Erections may not last as long as before ejaculation occurs. The feeling that ejaculation is about to happen may be shorter. These changes can lead to an older man ejaculating earlier.

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At what age do most men stop ejaculating?

There's no scientific proof for a specific age when men stop ejaculating. Ejaculation depends on health, lifestyle, and age. Aging does affect reproductive health, but it's not a sudden stop. Research shows many men can ejaculate well into old age.

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Sexual Problems in Aging Males | Common problems in men after 40years

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Can a 70 year old man still get hard?

Yes, a 70-year-old man can still get an erection, though it's more common to experience some erectile dysfunction (ED) due to aging, health conditions (like heart disease, diabetes), medications, or lifestyle factors, but effective treatments and lifestyle changes can help manage this and maintain sexual function. Erections might take longer to develop, be less firm, or require more stimulation, but persistent difficulty achieving a satisfactory erection isn't a normal part of aging and can often be addressed by a doctor. 

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How long does it take to build up a full load?

It takes about 56–72 days to build up a full load of sperm. Sperm are produced continuously and develop in the testes. They then mature in the epididymis, which may take up to 10 to 14 days. Factors like age, hormones, and ejaculation frequency can affect recovery time.

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How long do men usually last before coming?

Measured on a stopwatch, it takes an average of 5 to 7 minutes for a man to reach orgasm and ejaculate. But the overall range is wide, from less than one minute to over half an hour.

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Why is my husband taking longer to finish?

Men who have difficulty reaching ejaculation/orgasm identify putative reasons for their problem, ranging from anxiety/stress, inadequate stimulation, and low arousal to partner issues and medical reasons.

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Why am I finishing but not ejaculating?

Dry orgasm is when a male orgasms without ejaculating (coming). Dry orgasm can happen after you have bladder or prostate surgery. It can also be caused by some medical conditions and medicines. Talk to your doctor about treatment for your sexual difficulties.

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Why does my man lose his hard on?

Erections are about being relaxed and being turned on. Losing an erection or being unable to become erect often results from nerves, anxiety, or using alcohol or other drugs. Sometimes, people worry about performance.

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What age does morning wood stop?

Men can experience morning erections at any age, but it is less and less common as age increases. This is a gradual process, meaning as a man's hormones slowly decrease with age, so does his likelihood of having morning erections, also known as nocturnal erections.

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How long can the average man stay erect?

A normal erection time usually lasts from 5-35 minutes. If erection loss occurs after only a short time, or recurs in the course of sexual activity, it can be a particularly frustrating experience.

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Why is my boyfriend struggling to finish?

Your boyfriend may be unable to ejaculate due to psychological factors (stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, past trauma, performance pressure) or physical causes (certain medications, alcohol/drug use, diabetes, nerve problems from surgery or injury, hormonal issues, aging, low testosterone). Often, it's a mix of both, and a doctor can help diagnose the specific reason through medical tests and by discussing his sexual history and lifestyle, so talking openly and seeking professional advice is key. 

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Why is my wife not finishing?

Some physical causes of difficulty reaching orgasm may include: hormone change — for example after childbirth, perimenopause or after menopause. certain medical conditions — including thyroid problems, stress, anxiety and depression.

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What techniques can speed up climax?

Tense Your Muscles

Tensing your pelvic, leg, abdominal, and buttocks muscles can be really important in helping you achieve orgasm. In fact, sometimes it's even necessary. For some women, tensing the feet or upper body can be helpful, too.

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Why is my partner finishing so quickly?

It could come from the nervousness of being with a new partner, the anxiousness of having sex again after a long period of abstinence, being overly excited or other reasons. Stress. Stress could be coming from work, other relationships, life changes or other events in your life. Relationship problems.

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What is the average load size for a man?

Factors Affecting Semen Volume

Each time men ejaculate, they discharge between 1.25 and 5.00 mL (1/4 teaspoon to 1 teaspoon) of semen on average. However, this amount varies from person to person due to the influence of certain factors such as: Age. Hereditary.

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How long to wait for round 2?

The time to wait for "round two" varies greatly, typically ranging from a few minutes to several hours or even days, depending on age, health, and individual factors, with men generally needing a longer refractory period than women, though women can experience sensitivity or psychological downtime. Younger individuals often recover faster, while older individuals usually need more time (sometimes 12-24 hours) to become aroused again. 

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Is it normal for a man to last 45 minutes in bed?

Most men can ejaculate within a few minutes of starting to thrust during intercourse. Men with delayed ejaculation may be unable to ejaculate or may only be able to ejaculate with great effort after having intercourse for a long time (for example, 30 to 45 minutes).

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What happens after 7 days of not ejaculating?

After 7 days of not ejaculating, unreleased sperm are reabsorbed by the body, and it's generally considered harmless, though some studies suggest longer abstinence might slightly decrease sperm quality for fertility, while temporary testosterone levels might rise; it's fine unless it's due to a medical issue or causes distress, in which case seeing a doctor is recommended. 

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How many times should a man release sperm in a week?

There is no medical guidance on how frequently a male should ejaculate. More frequent ejaculation and sex can offer numerous health benefits, such as managing stress, relieving pain, improving heart health, and reducing high blood pressure.

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Does edging increase sperm volume?

Most medical professionals say that while edging might slightly increase the volume of semen during a single session, it isn't considered a clinically proven method to significantly boost sperm count for fertility purposes.

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What turns most men on the most?

Figuring out what turns men on the most often comes down to the tiny, almost quiet things that make them feel drawn in and connected. It isn't always about big gestures or dramatic moments; sometimes it's a look, a tone, or a small spark of warmth that lingers longer than expected.

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How many times a month do 70 year olds make love?

More than half (54%) of men and almost a third (31%) of women over the age of 70 reported they were still sexually active, with a third of these men and women having frequent sex – meaning at least twice a month – according to data from the latest wave of the English Longitudinal Study of Ageing (ELSA).

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