Once the let-down starts, some breastfed babies struggle to keep up with the fast flow of milk. If they're overwhelmed, this can make them pull away. Your baby could also be suffering reflux, which can also cause symptoms such as pain, fussiness, and unsettling behavior.
Young babies use their hands to push and pull the breast to shape the breast and provide easier access to the nipple. Their hands on your breast releases oxytocin and also helps the nipple erect and evert.
Baby's frustration may just be a sign that she's finished and wants to move on. On a similar note, an occasional baby will just want to suck at the end of a nursing session and the flow of milk with let-down frustrates her.
Your baby might be unlatching repeatedly for many reasons—including gas, illness, teething, or being distracted. Determine if you have an issue with poor latching, low milk flow, or too much milk supply, which can contribute to your baby latching and unlatching repeatedly.
It could be from a cold, ear infection, stuffy nose, upset stomach, injury, teething, thrush, cold sore, or other reasons. Your baby is upset. Maybe there is a big change in nursing routine, you were apart for a long time, or your baby's environment is uncomfortable. Your baby is distracted.
It's common in the first days of life for a baby to have trouble latching on or maintaining sucking at the breast. If this problem doesn't go away, more help is needed. A baby must be able to remove enough milk from the breast through correct latch and sucking to gain weight.
There are several physical, medical reasons why a baby might cry at your breast, including food intolerances, allergies, foremilk/hindmilk imbalance (too much milk, creating painful gas), reflux, or illness.
If your newborn baby is particularly squirmy and grunts while breastfeeding, it might be simply that she needs to burp. It could also be a warning that she's about to give you an extra job to do. Watch out for a 'pooplosion'! Babies soon let you know what is bothering them.
A baby who twists, pulls, and grunts during a feeding session might have gas trapped and feel uncomfortable. If yours continues to squirm, pause feeding and try to burp her instead. You might hold her in an upright position over your shoulder (make sure her tummy, not her head, is pressed on your shoulder).
One of the most common reasons for a baby kicking while breastfeeding is because of an oversupply of milk. This is when your breasts expel more milk, especially in the beginning, than your baby can take in. He kicks and cries because he's trying to slow the flow and take a breath.
Sometimes, your milk lets down so fast that your baby can have trouble swallowing the amount of milk that's being released. Because of this, your baby may act fussy at breast or choke and sputter at the breast, and he or she may be quite gassy.
Babies often fuss, cry, or pull away from the breast when they need to burp. A fast flow of milk can exacerbate this. They can also swallow more air when they're fussy or gulp down milk faster than usual if they're over-hungry.
The tongue thrust reflex in babies means they naturally push their tongues out when they breastfeed or bottle feed to help them swallow. It helps them to feed safely without choking. It also makes latching onto a nipple or bottle easier.
Get Hands On. If you have large breasts, a squirmy baby, or flat nipples, you may find it is easier to hold your breast in your hand while baby latches. With your baby well supported on a pillow against your tummy, you can support baby's head and neck area with one hand and your breast with the other.
Be careful not to feed your baby every time she cries. Some babies cry because of a bloated stomach from overfeeding. Let your baby decide when she's had enough milk. (For example, she turns her head away.)
With your baby's head tilted back and chin up, lift him or her to touch your nipple. The nipple should rest just above the baby's upper lip. Wait for your baby to open very wide, then "scoop" the breast by placing the lower jaw on first. Now tip your baby's head forward and place the upper jaw well behind your nipple.
“The first four to six weeks are the toughest, then it starts to settle down,” says Cathy. “And when you get to three months, breastfeeding gets really easy – way easier than cleaning and making up a bottle.
Pushing the Tongue Down and Out
Turn the finger over slowly so that the finger pad is on the baby's tongue and push down on his/her tongue while gradually pulling the finger out of the mouth. Repeat this exercise several times before latching the baby onto the breast.
Why does my baby have a shallow latch? It may be because you and your baby are still learning how to breastfeed. Your baby will need to be positioned well at the breast and supported to latch effectively.
Signs of a Poor Breastfeeding Latch
Your child is sucking in their cheeks as they try to breastfeed. Your baby does not have their lips out like a fish. You can see that they have their lips tucked in and under, instead. You can hear a clicking or smacking noises as your little one tries to suck.
Side-Lying Position
Begin by lying on your side, positioning your baby similarly so that your chests face each other. Your top hand will support your lower breast and help to guide it to your baby for latching.
Babies tend to improve their latch as they mature and grow. Some babies will latch better when you try a different position. Other babies may simply need more time. Certain babies may need the help of a breastfeeding tool or intervention in order to latch so that they can remove milk comfortably and well.
“The first four to six weeks are the toughest, then it starts to settle down,” says Cathy. “And when you get to three months, breastfeeding gets really easy – way easier than cleaning and making up a bottle.