Why do smart children worry?

Even though the gifted are no more susceptible to mental illness than anyone else, some gifted children and teens struggle with overthinking, worry, or cautious alertness. Their nervous system seems wired for heightened reactivity. For some, obsessive thinking transitions into anxiety.

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Why do smart kids worry so much?

The roots of heightened nervousness lie within the special brains of gifted children, suggests Dabrowski. He believed that gifted children have stronger neuronal responses to many different types of stimuli. In simpler terms, gifted children experience things more profoundly than non-gifted children.

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Do intelligent children worry more?

Many studies have discussed the role of such characteristics as asynchronous development, perfectionism, and hypersensitivity for vulnerability to psychological health problems (9, 10, 11, 12, 13). Research has also shown that gifted children have more fears than their typically developing peers (14).

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Is it normal for a child to worry about everything?

It's normal for children to feel worried or anxious from time to time, such as when they're starting school or nursery, or moving to a new area. Anxiety is a feeling of unease, such as worry or fear – it's an understandable reaction in children to change or a stressful event.

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What would cause a child to worry?

Things that happen in a child's life can be stressful and difficult to cope with. Loss, serious illness, death of a loved one, violence, or abuse can lead some kids to become anxious. Learned behaviors. Growing up in a family where others are fearful or anxious also can "teach" a child to be afraid too.

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How do I get my child to stop worrying?

  1. Quick Read.
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  3. The goal isn't to eliminate anxiety, but to help a child manage it.
  4. Don't avoid things just because they make a child anxious.
  5. Express positive — but realistic — expectations.
  6. Respect their feelings, but don't empower them.
  7. Don't ask leading questions.
  8. Don't reinforce the child's fears.

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How do you help an overthinking child?

Let your children pick favourite activities such as; reading a book, playing a game, riding bicycle, even timed screen activity. Whenever your child is overthinking or seems to be stressed about something, allow them to do an activity that they like, for example exercise, or play badminton.

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What disorder is excessive worrying?

Are you always waiting for disaster to strike or excessively worried about things such as health, money, family, work, or school? If so, you may have a type of anxiety disorder called generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). GAD can make daily life feel like a constant state of worry, fear, and dread.

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Why do some kids worry more than others?

Some people worry more than others because they're born that way. Some experts say your genes or personality can make a person more likely to be a worrier. Worries can run in families – maybe mum, dad, your sibling or grandparents could be worriers too. Worries are actually really common.

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What are the signs of anxiety in a child?

Anxiety may present as fear or worry, but can also make children irritable and angry. Anxiety symptoms can also include trouble sleeping, as well as physical symptoms like fatigue, headaches, or stomachaches. Some anxious children keep their worries to themselves and, thus, the symptoms can be missed.

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Are smart kids harder to parent?

Giftedness can create problems and conflicts; being a gifted child can also mean difficulty socializing with age peers, thinking styles that don't always mesh well with the demands from the environment, even children who see themselves as little adults, challenging teachers and parents.

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Do smart people worry too much?

Research has shown that there is a high correlation between being intelligent and socially anxious. The higher your IQ, the higher the chance your social apprehension is higher than usual. Of course, that doesn't mean that your social anxiety should be classified as a disorder.

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Do gifted children lack empathy?

Gifted children, characterized often by heightened emotional sensitivity, are often highly empathetic, as well. In fact, their empathy may seem overly present in their experience of the world, as any parent whose child has burst into tears about a dead bug on the sidewalk can tell you.

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Do gifted kids have anxiety?

Studies show that gifted children have a higher risk of experiencing mental health issues, like anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts. Because gifted children have different capabilities than their peers, other children may find them intimidating.

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Why are smart kids socially awkward?

The problems gifted children sometimes face with socializing often stem from their asynchrony and educational setting. Asynchronous development, or uneven development, is often considered a core trait of giftedness. These students may be college age intellectually but still 12 in terms of their social skills.

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Why do smart kids have behavior problems?

Gifted children often set very high standards for themselves and get frustrated when they can't meet them. This can sometimes result in tantrums and other difficult behaviour. It's great for your child to work towards high standards. But your child needs to understand that they can't have high standards for everything.

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What age do children start to worry?

Many of these worries are a normal part of growing up. From the age of around 6 months to 3 years it's very common for young children to have separation anxiety. They may become clingy and cry when separated from their parents or carers.

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Can kids grow out of anxiety?

"There's this idea that kids will outgrow these problems [related to anxiety], but the evidence doesn't support that." Without treatment, childhood anxiety is likely to persist, negatively affecting a child's social and family functioning and overall quality of life.

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Can a parent cause anxiety in a child?

Overcontrolling parents may increase levels of worry and social anxiety in children as this parental behavior may communicate to youths that they do not have the skills to successfully navigate challenges in their environment, generally or in social situations, thereby causing the child to worry about his/her abilities ...

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Is worrying a form of OCD?

Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) has two main parts: obsessions and compulsions. Obsessions are unwelcome thoughts, images, urges, worries or doubts that repeatedly appear in your mind. They can make you feel very anxious (although some people describe it as 'mental discomfort' rather than anxiety).

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Is excessive worrying a form of OCD?

When worrying becomes chronic and intrusive thoughts become distressing, it can be a sign of a mental health condition that is often underrecognized and undertreated—obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).

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What is the difference between worry and anxiety?

Worry is temporary.

There's a concerning situation (like COVID-19) and you worry about it. Worry prods you to use problem-solving skills to address your concerns. Anxiety is persistent, even when concerns are unrealistic. It often compromises your ability to function.

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Do gifted kids overthink?

Even though the gifted are no more susceptible to mental illness than anyone else, some gifted children and teens struggle with overthinking, worry, or cautious alertness. Their nervous system seems wired for heightened reactivity. For some, obsessive thinking transitions into anxiety.

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What do 7 year olds worry about?

7 to 8 years – Common fears include being left alone and can lead to wanting company, even if they are playing by themself. They may talk about death and worry about things that could harm them, for example, car accidents to plane crashes.

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Is Overthinking Genetically inherited?

Most experts agree that certain anxiety disorders, which are often linked to overthinking, have a genetic component, but are also influenced by environment. You may be an overthinker because you inherited it genetically – or because you were raised by someone who created an environment of anxiety or stress.

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