You might perceive yourself as prettier when sad due to the heightened emotionality, tear-induced glow (blood flow, flush), vulnerability, or even a shift in focus where you notice your own features more, creating a poignant look that others find captivating, even though prolonged sadness causes skin issues like puffiness or redness. It's often about the intensity of emotion making eyes seem deeper and skin appear brighter temporarily, a stark contrast to feeling numb or stressed.
Crying increases blood circulation, hydrates your skin, and flushes out toxins—giving you that unexpected post-cry radiance. So next time you shed a tear, just remember… you might just be glowing through it!
This is what happens when there is emotional resonance: We find beauty in sadness because the expression resonates with our human experience of loss, reflection, and empathy. If there is that resonance, you can't avoid feeling it.
Yes—many people notice physical changes during depression. Ongoing psychological stress can affect the body in ways that show up on the skin, like reduced elasticity, fine lines, acne, or flare-ups of conditions such as eczema or psoriasis.
According to psychology, when we see ourselves in the mirror, we tend to think of ourselves as prettier, than how we actually look to others, in real life. That's the perception of the mirror, vs what you look like to others in real life.
Yes, the idea that people see you as significantly more attractive (often cited as around 20% more) than you see yourself is a common concept in psychology, stemming from research suggesting we are overly critical of our own appearance due to familiarity and focusing on flaws, while others see a more complete picture including personality, kindness, and humor. This difference happens because you see yourself in mirrors (reversed) and photos (often unflattering angles/lighting) while others see you as you are, in real-time, noticing your overall vibe, confidence, and smile more than minor imperfections.
Photographs are never a 100% accurate reflection of what you look like. That is not their job anyway. Photographs are witnesses of your life.
Reduced Facial Expressions:
One of the most common facial signs of depression is a decrease in facial expressions, often referred to as "flat affect." Individuals with depression may show less movement in their facial muscles, resulting in a lack of smiles or frowns that typically convey emotions.
The 5 C's of Mental Health provide a framework for well-being, often cited as Competence, Confidence, Connection, Character, and Caring, focusing on feeling capable, believing in oneself, nurturing relationships, living by values, and showing empathy. While some variations exist, like adding Compassion, Coping, or Community, the core idea is building resilience through personal growth and strong relationships, helping individuals manage challenges and thrive.
Anxiety, fear and panic
When someone is sad or crying, their emotions can evoke a sense of vulnerability, authenticity, and rawness. That can be very beautiful to the observer. This vulnerability often exposes layers of depth and complexity in a person's character, which can be perceived as attractive.
Gratitude is a feeling that requires us to focus on what is good in our lives and being thankful for what we have. According to the American Heart Association, the practice of gratitude can improve immune function.
“Some men are turned on by women crying because it can give them a sense of power or control,” she explains. “Seeing a woman in a vulnerable state can enhance feelings of dominance, which can be a turn-on for some men. It can tap into their protector instincts, making them feel needed and 'manly. '”
Sometimes crying on camera helps relieves loneliness, especially if someone gives you some attention. Some people don't have anyone close they want to burden their feelings with so posting it to strangers allows them to get the feelings out regardless of their responses to the individual.
It's the third category, emotional tears (which flush stress hormones and other toxins out of our system), that potentially offers the most health benefits. Researchers have established that crying releases oxytocin and endogenous opioids, also known as endorphins.
Symptoms
SMI includes major depression, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), panic disorder, post traumatic stress (PTSD) and borderline personality disorder (VA).
One of the most commonly used formulations in clinical psychology is the '5 Ps' which focuses on Predisposing Factors, Protective Factors, Precipitating Factors, Presenting Issues and Perpetuating Factors.
On a background of minor dysmorphologies of the upper face, maxilla, midface and periorbital region, the main features in bipolar disorder are (a) retrusion and shortening of the premaxilla, nose, philtrum, lips and mouth (the frontonasal prominences), with (b) protrusion and widening of the mandible-chin.
Background: Depression has been shown to be associated with eye diseases, including dry eye disease (DED), cataracts, glaucoma, age-related macular degeneration (AMD), and diabetic retinopathy (DR).
Schizophrenia changes how a person thinks and behaves.
The first signs can be hard to identify as they often develop during the teenage years. Symptoms such as becoming socially withdrawn and unresponsive or changes in sleeping patterns can be mistaken for an adolescent "phase".
It may surprise you to learn that being photogenic has nothing to do with whether or not you're conventionally attractive or “beautiful” in real life. In fact, attractiveness and beauty are highly subjective, based on standard societal conventions as well as individual taste.
Mirrors reflect a more accurate picture of you as you see yourself, while cameras may show a more precise view of how others see you. Of course, this isn't the absolute truth, because lighting and other factors can make you look very different in two mirrors, just as they can in two different pictures.
Scottish Studies Have Confirmed It
The two-dimensional nature of traditional photography makes subjects appear bigger and heavier than they actually are. The ratio of a person's neck and waist to their hips is usually emphasised in photographs. This results in a more pronounced jawline and chin for the female gender.