Dogs lick human private areas, just like other parts of the body, due to a mix of instinct, affection, scent exploration (especially salty skin), and seeking attention, drawing from behaviors learned from their mother (comfort, food solicitation) and social bonding, though it can sometimes stem from boredom or anxiety. These areas, with concentrated scent glands and bacteria, are naturally interesting to a dog's keen sense of smell and taste, acting as a way to "read" you.
It's important to keep in mind where people have most of their scent glands (feet, armpits, genitals, face and mouth) It's natural for a dog to want to smell and or lick/taste your feet, face, armpits, genitals, mouth and any area that has our scent glands and bacteria concentrated.
You shouldn't do anything. Dogs have no concept of appropriate and inappropriate. They just lick. If you're worried about bacteria, a shower will take care of that, but you'll be fine.
For them it's a way of grooming, bonding, and expressing themselves. Your dog may lick you to say they love you, to get your attention, to help soothe themselves if they're stressed, to show empathy or because you taste good to them!
Normally though, dogs just like to sniff private parts because of the pheromones that provide them with an abundance of information.
While the invasive sniffing can be embarrassing, especially if your dog does it to a visitor, it's their way of saying hello and learning about someone. A dog's nose is a powerful tool. Dogs have up to 300 million scent sensors in their noses, compared to humans, who only have 6 million.
The reason dogs are particularly interested in sniffing private areas is due to the concentration of scent glands in those regions. These glands produce pheromones, which convey a lot of information to a dog.
Dogs say "sorry" through submissive body language like tucking their tail, lowering their head, making "puppy eyes," licking, and rolling onto their backs to show they're not a threat, which are appeasement signals to diffuse tension after a conflict or misbehavior, often combined with whining or approaching and retreating. They recognize when their human (or another dog) is upset and use these signs to seek forgiveness, though it's more about reducing stress than human-like guilt.
Leaning into you
Leaning against your leg (or whatever part is closest to them) is a big sign that they love you. If you find your dog leaning against you, take a moment to pet him and show him some extra affection.
A: You may believe when your dog licks you that this is a sign of affection, like kissing. However, dogs usually do not show affection this way, so licking is likely for other reasons, such as taste or anxiety. Sometimes they are licking your face or hands because they smell food.
Older dogs may develop increased scent-marking or obsessive licking behaviors due to anxiety or medical issues. A male dog fixating on a spayed female's bottom and ear can indicate curiosity, anxiety, or detection of an underlying health issue like infection or hormonal changes.
If your dog has developed a habit of mounting you or other people, discourage him from humping by pushing him off, turning away, sitting down or somehow adopting a position that prevents him from mounting. If your dog won't stop, say “Nope!” and immediately take him to a quiet, safe room for a short time-out.
Generally, dogs do not like being touched on their genitals or anal area; these are sensitive spots they instinctively protect, similar to humans, and touching them can be uncomfortable, annoying, or even cause pain, leading to growling or snapping, so it's best to avoid them and focus on areas like the chest, neck, or base of the tail where they often enjoy petting.
While dogs are driven to smell everything around them, apocrine glands are to blame for their obsession with certain areas of our bodies. Apocrine glands are a type of sweat gland that, in humans, are found in areas with hair, predominately the armpits and groin.
Numerous studies have shown that dogs can detect specific odors associated with certain illnesses, such as cancer and diabetes. Their ability to detect these scent changes is believed to be due to the volatile organic compounds emitted by the human body when it is unwell.
In perfect conditions, dogs can pick up a sent up to 12 miles away. A dog's extraordinary ability to pickup scents as far away as 12 miles have made them invaluable assets in using smell to find lost adults, detecting illness in people, and for law enforcement.
The 3-3-3 rule for dogs is a guideline for new owners, especially for rescues, showing a dog's typical adjustment phases: 3 Days (overwhelmed, decompression), 3 Weeks (settling in, learning routine, showing personality), and 3 Months (feeling at home, building trust, fully integrated). It's a framework to set expectations, reminding owners to be patient and provide structure, as every dog's timeline varies.
An hour for a dog feels much longer than an hour for a human because dogs perceive time more slowly due to their faster metabolism and heightened awareness of routines, so a 10-minute wait can feel like 70 minutes to them, and your hour-long absence feels like an eternity, though they don't grasp clock time but rather the intervals between events like meals, walks, and your return.
For dogs, pawing is a natural behaviour, often used to attract attention or invite play. As they grow, dogs quickly learn that repeating actions that get a response will work again. A paw on your arm may lead to you fussing them, playing with them, or even just giving eye contact and speaking.
Generally, dogs dislike hugs, not being allowed to sniff, a lack of routine, and more. Even the most laid-back dog will hate some of the things we humans do—if they tolerate it, it's just because they love you or don't want to be dominant.
In conclusion, dogs are sensitive creatures that can remember and react to raised voices. While they don't hold grudges, repeated negative experiences can impact their behavior and emotional well-being. Understanding your dog's emotional states and body language is crucial for building a strong and loving relationship.
Research suggests that dogs with a guilty look do not show evidence that they are aware of having engaged in misbehavior. One would not experience guilt if one were unaware that a crime had been committed.
Knot tying is a normal process during the act of mating and may persist for 10 – 30 minutes before both male and female are set free. But, in some cases, it may happen that the knot may get struck and cause pain, injury, trauma and stress for both male and female.
Cobbing in dogs is a gentle nibbling behavior, often with the front teeth, that resembles a person nibbling corn off a cob; it's usually a sign of affection, grooming, play, or a way to seek attention, but can also indicate boredom, anxiety, or stress, often seen in calm moments or as a self-soothing habit from puppyhood. While generally harmless and a form of social bonding or grooming, excessive cobbing might signal underlying issues like boredom, skin problems, or anxiety, requiring attention.
When you are not there, being close to your scent is the next best thing. It is the concentration of smells in your dirty underwear that dogs are especially drawn too, and this can sometimes be paired with another dog habit: chewing.