If your fur baby won't sleep in her bed, it could be because: The bed isn't high up enough. Kitties like sleeping on couches and table tops because they feel more secure in high places. The bed isn't comfortable.
It could also be that the bed has lost its cushioning and is simply no longer comfortable enough for your cat to sleep on, or perhaps the bed has become dirty or smelly and your cat would prefer a fresh start.
Cats tend to move their sleeping locations around from time to time. It's believed that their instincts tell them to do so in order to make them less vulnerable to predators.
To increase the chances of your cat using the bed you have chosen, however, you can make sure that it is placed in a quiet place, away from any draughts. A warm place, next to a radiator or in the sun, is usually ideal.
In these cases, bringing along a favorite blanket may help ease their anxiety and make them feel more at home. Similarly, cats may prefer to sleep on a blanket rather than a bed because the blanket is more familiar and comforting.
There are certain circumstances under which cats should be banned from the bed. Never let your cat sleep with a child under 4 or 5, and especially not with a baby. If you or your partner have asthma or allergies, your cat shouldn't be allowed in the bedroom at all.
Loud noises
In the home, cats are often scared of noisy household appliances, especially if they didn't become accustomed to them as young kittens. Vacuum cleaners, lawnmowers, printers, washing machines and hairdryers are common culprits.
Cats can meow for a variety of reasons, but if your noisy little feline is being particularly disruptive at night when you're in bed then it could well be because they're feeling lonely. Those cries for company won't quieten down either until you find a way to keep them stimulated.
Cats that curl into a ball to sleep usually prefer a round cat bed; ideally, with stiff sides, they can wriggle and snuggle against. Felines that like to sprawl out at night usually like a mat rather than a bed - with plenty of room to stretch out!
Make sure your cat gets plenty of exercise
Whether you use a piece of string, cat balls or some other toy, the main thing is to let your cat run, jump and climb. Once you feel they have had enough exercise (not to mention fun!), you can then give them their evening meal.
Preference. Believe it or not, it may be as simple as he just doesn't like to be touched or picked up. Your kitty might just dislike the way being held feels. For some cats, being picked up may actually communicate disrespect.
They get up close. Cats are very protective of their personal space and don't like unwelcome guests to invade it. If a cat allows you to get close to them, that suggests a close bond, particularly where the contact is frequent or long lasting. Curling up on your lap for a nap is a sign of deep trust.
If you recently bought a new cat bed and want your pet to adapt to sleeping on it, it might be useful to sprinkle some of the herb on top so your cat will be drawn to the bed. Additionally, catnip can be great for new cats getting acclimated to new environments. Giving them catnip may help ease feelings of anxiety.
As a general rule, cats are sensitive when it comes to smells, but there are a few scents they hate that might just surprise you. They can't stand citrus and as much as you might love the smell of fresh herbs, cats hate rosemary and thyme. Banana and mustard are a big no-no too, as well as lavender and eucalyptus.
Texture: Sticky paper, aluminum foil, heavy plastic or a plastic carpet runner (knubby side up) can be placed in areas you want to be off limits. Cats hate walking on these surfaces. Smell: Citronella, perfumes, solid air fresheners, citrus, aloe, eucalyptus oil and oil of wintergreen are all aversive smells to cats.
Where Cats Go at Night. It's natural to wonder where the heck cats go at night. At home, they're usually sleeping, playing, cuddling, eating, or sleeping some more.
Lying next to you, but not on you, doesn't mean your cat is not bonded to you. In fact, sleeping next to you means your cat trusts you enough to be in a vulnerable position while sleeping. Some cats are not comfortable sleeping on their cat parent because they prefer the security of a small buffer zone.
Wait until he's of a size to make that an unlikely risk. My main rule of thumb is to wait until the kitten is old enough to get up on the bed on his own — typically around his 6-month birthday.