The mouth is considered to be the most erotic part of any woman's body. If you kiss her with love and passion you can easily make her hungry for more. Try caressing her lips, tracing them with your fingers, she might find this exhilarating. At times kissing her till she is breathless can do the work as well.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don't press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women. On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing.
Keep your mouth soft and relaxed.
Both a cranked-open jaw and a closed-mouth, hard pucker aren't the most pleasant to smooch. Keep your lips just-apart enough, allowing the kisses to be soft and deep, and keep your mouth relaxed.
Don t press too hard on her lips.
Let it last for a few seconds before you break apart. Or, you can even go back to more kisses if she too is in the mood. This time, it can be more intense and you could even use your tongue.
Ease back out of the kiss, keeping yourself close to your partner's face. After the kiss, pull your head back slowly to give each of you some space. If you wrapped a hand around each other, you can lightly ease off, or hold each other close for a more intimate moment. Look your partner in the eyes and smile.
If she stiffens or pulls away, that's a sign she's not yet comfortable, and going in for a kiss now probably won't go well. If she blushes, giggles, or smiles, those are signs she's comfortable with you and would possibly be receptive to a kiss.
Interestingly, this is largely agreed upon across generations. No need to wait for the official first date to get a little face time, however. Americans agree kids are ready for their first kiss at age 15 (15.1 on average), while on average, they had theirs at age 14.5.
Start with slow kisses, move to opening your mouth a little, and if it feels right—try a little tongue. “A willingness to explore with pressure, tongue, and body positioning is good,” Whitney says. “A gentle but firm and controlled touch on my face or back is great; covering my lips and chin with his mouth is not.”
Massage his lips between yours. Start with his bottom lip and then move to his top one. If possible, maintain eye contact to establish a connection before you go in for a kiss. Close your eyes when you're kissing him to feel all the sensation from kissing.
Start with slow kisses, move to opening your mouth a little, and if it feels right—try a little tongue. “A willingness to explore with pressure, tongue, and body positioning is good,” Whitney says. “A gentle but firm and controlled touch on my face or back is great; covering my lips and chin with his mouth is not.”
Kiss on whichever date you feel comfortable. Many people wait until the end of a first, second, or third date; this gives you time to get to know each other. Gauge your date's interest before planting one to make sure they're receptive to kissing. If you're not positive they're up for it, ask.
Interestingly, this is largely agreed upon across generations. No need to wait for the official first date to get a little face time, however. Americans agree kids are ready for their first kiss at age 15 (15.1 on average), while on average, they had theirs at age 14.5.
Lengthening kisses to six seconds could be a key to a better relationship. Dr. John Gottman says it's long enough to make a moment of connection with our partner. It stops the busyness in your brain and puts your focus on your partner at that moment.
Don t press too hard on her lips.
Let it last for a few seconds before you break apart. Or, you can even go back to more kisses if she too is in the mood. This time, it can be more intense and you could even use your tongue.
A good kisser knows how to get in tune with what the other person is doing and stay in sync to their movements and vibe. So if you feel like you're well-suited to your kissing partner's style, then you're all set.