You now know that once the meal has concluded, it's proper to place the napkin to the left of your plate. However, if you're leaving the table briefly, such as to use the restroom, you can leave your napkin on your chair. You don't need to place your napkin in any particular way, unless the chair is upholstered.
The napkin goes to the left of the fork, or on the plate. The bread and butter knife is optional.
If you need to leave the table temporarily, place your napkin in your chair and push your chair back under the table - this signals to the wait staff that you will be returning to the table.
If you have enough room between place settings, the napkin should go to the left of the fork(s). If you don't have room, the napkin should be placed on the plate or charger. It should never go in the water glass or tea cup, no matter how pretty it makes the table setting look.
Use your napkin to show when you are finished.
At the end of the meal, leave the napkin semi-folded at the left side of the place setting or on the plate. Either of these moves will signal to the wait staff that you have completed that course, and they may remove the dishes.
Don't unfold your napkin above the table. Unfold your napkin, just above your lap, underneath the table. Don't blot lipstick on a cloth napkin or use it as a handkerchief. Don't place your cloth or paper napkin on your plate after eating.
Proper Napkin Placement
When setting the table for an everyday dinner or a casual meal, the napkin should be placed on the left side of the plate, underneath the forks. The napkin should be about 1 inch away from the plate, and the folded side of the napkin should be on the right, facing the plate.
You take your seat at the table. Do you wait for your host to pick up his napkin? No. You should place your napkin in your lap right after you sit down, regardless of what your host does.
Napkins are for discreetly wiping the mouth and for protecting your lap from food spills.
In a formal place setting, the napkin goes neither under the fork or the knife, but to the left of the of the fork(s) and charger, which is a large decorative plate placed under the dinner plate, or centered on the charger.
If you drop something on the floor, such as your napkin or knife, leave it on the floor and let the waiter take care of it.
Glassware should be set above and to the right of the dinner plate with a red wine glass, a white wine glass and a water glass.
The water glass belongs to the right of the plate, just above the main dining knife. Wine glasses should be set to the right of the water glasses in the order in which they will be used.
"d" is for drinks — Glasses go on the right side. Place the water glass directly above the knife tip, and the wine glass to the right of the water glass.
Answer: Back in the olden days, they used to place table tops on a log or tree stump, so if you put your elbows on the table, it would flip up, so that's how it became bad manners to put your elbows on the table.
Step One: Start by laying a square dinner napkin flat. Step Two: Fold the napkin into thirds from top to bottom. Step Three: Flip the napkin over and place it on top of a salad plate, tucking the ends of the napkin underneath the plate. Step Four: Top with a name card, dinner menu, or flower.
In the US, serviette is rarely used. However, in the UK, use of the word serviette is often thought to be common or un-posh, whereas napkin is associated with the upper class.
napkin — not “serviette”, unless you are literally in France. NOCD — not our class, darling. non–U — often attributed to Nancy Mitford, the terms “U” (upperclass) and “non–U” were first coined by the British linguist Alan Ross in his 1954 paper “Linguistic class-indicators in present-day English”.
In Australia and New Zealand, “serviette” generally refers to the paper variety and “napkin” refers to the cloth variety. The same distinction is used in Canada although “paper napkin” may be used interchangeably with “serviette”.
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Traditionally, you should leave a bite on your plate to convey that you enjoyed the meal and were served enough to be satisfied. Today, diners (and especially children) shouldn't be excepted to join the #CleanPlateClub or feel bad if they finish their meal. Instead, just eat until you're full.