So when cats look at each other, blink and look away, they are conveying the message that they are not “threatening” the other cat. When a cat interacts with people and the cat is not threatened by the person, she may look at the person and then perform this same “slow blink.” She then may look away or she may not.
To cats, slow blinking is a form of smiling, and solicits happy, positive emotions. The researchers found that a cat will respond to a human's slow blink with a slow blink of their own, and is more likely to approach an unfamiliar person who is slow blinking at them. Visit Business Insider's homepage for more stories.
To cats, a direct stare paired with other aggressive body language can sometimes seem like a challenge to them. This is why cats avert their gaze to show you that they trust you and know you aren't a threat to them.
A slow blink indicates that your cat trusts you and is happy to be around you. Slow blinking back shows him you feel the same way about him and can help the two of you bond more closely.
“The slow blink is a sign of trust,” says certified feline behavior consultant Cristin Tamburo. “Your cat is showing that they are relaxed and comfortable in your presence.” Does that mean they love you? It's probably better to think of the slow blink like the feline version of a gentle, welcoming smile.
Slow-blinking isn't just for cats: You can show love and affection by slow-blinking back. According to the study, cats are more likely to approach an unfamiliar person who slow-blinks at them than someone who keeps a neutral face.
Animal behaviorists have found cats avoid eye contact when they feel fearful or threatened. Conversely, a cat narrows its eyes and slowly blinks in a sort of half-blink as a way to say — you have won my trust, human.
Direct eye contact
Cats can find direct eye contact quite threatening. They wouldn't look another cat straight in the face unless they were fixing for a fight. When your cat's relaxed, they might look at you with a peaceful gaze or half closed eyes.
Yes, you read that right: A recent study revealed that getting your pet's attention is as simple as speaking with a high-pitched tone and extended vowels, just like how you'd communicate with a human baby. Additionally, the study suggested that your cat can actually tell you apart from strangers.
Cats can be very self-conscious. When it realizes it's being watched, the cat may assess the threat, and then return to whatever he was doing, but in a more self-conscious way. The direct eye contact intimidates your cat, which can make him uncomfortable.
This “slow blinking” may be an indicator of positive emotions in cats. New research suggests cats like it when humans blink at them — and they might blink back in response.
According to a study done by the nutrition company, Canadae, they discovered that the person who makes the most effort is the favorite. People who communicate with their cat by getting to know their cues and motives are more attractive to their cat companions.
Most cats don't understand that kisses from humans are a sign of affection. A cat will surely let you know if they enjoy being kissed or not. The best ways to show your cat that you love them are to give them toys, treats, and plenty of one-on-one time.
Turns out, it depends on the cat. Some cats are socialized as kittens to be held and kissed, while others haven't had that exposure and might be put off by a kiss as an expression of love. So, some cats like it and some cats don't—but there are ways of detecting the category into which your feline friend falls.
Sleeping near you
If your kitty likes to sleep near you - or even on you - this is an indication that they have total trust in you.
In the animal world, direct eye contact or a hard or prolonged stare is usually perceived as a threat or challenge to the recipient of that stare. If two cats were to exhibit neutral or even friendly behavior toward each other, they would typically avoid making direct eye contact.
Cat owners are often encouraged to slowly blink or wink their eyes (e.g. sleepy eyes) when directly looking toward their cats. This sends a message that you are not a threat and they should not be alarmed. However, cats always prefer their owners using their peripheral vision to look at them rather than a direct gaze.
Showing you affection
If you spot your cat staring at you and giving long, slow blinks and looking at you through half closed eyelids, this is actually known as “eye-kisses” and it's about the best compliment you could get from a cat!