Whilst bad breath, a darting tongue and a wet sloppy kiss are rated as the biggest kissing turn-offs according to science, it might also be your smell, taste or even your pheromones that's causing the problem. Being a bad kisser can be a deal breaker, but kissing is more complicated than most people think.
Someone who is a bad kisser is not very good at kissing.
You feel in sync with your kissing partner.
A good kisser knows how to get in tune with what the other person is doing and stay in sync to their movements and vibe. So if you feel like you're well-suited to your kissing partner's style, then you're all set.
Keep your mouth soft and relaxed.
Both a cranked-open jaw and a closed-mouth, hard pucker aren't the most pleasant to smooch. Keep your lips just-apart enough, allowing the kisses to be soft and deep, and keep your mouth relaxed.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don't press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women. On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing.
Interestingly, this is largely agreed upon across generations. No need to wait for the official first date to get a little face time, however. Americans agree kids are ready for their first kiss at age 15 (15.1 on average), while on average, they had theirs at age 14.5.
Touch their face.
This can add some intimacy to the kiss. You can grab their face with both of your hands and gently pull it closer to your face, for example. You can also try gently caressing their cheek, neck, or even their earlobe. Ears are sensitive areas, so lightly stroking their ear may be a turn-on for them!
08/8The selfish: You kiss according to your own pace and mood.
The soft and sensual
This is the kind of kiss where you can actually feel the intensity of the other person's lips. The kiss is slow and gentle, deep and meaningful, and is responsible for chapped lips the next day.
FOR 99.9% of women, bad kissing is a deal-breaker. A very fast deal-breaker. A woman will give you one pass for nervousness. If the second kissing experience is poor, that's it.
What to say after a kiss? Anything you want, or nothing at all! A simple smile is often more than enough. Thanks!
To be safe, I wouldn't let a first kiss linger too long. 10–15 seconds or less is the sweet spot. If your partner enjoys it, they'll be yearning for more and there should be plenty of other opportunities for necking.
In the Netherlands it is considered quite normal for Dutch people to greet each other with three kisses on the cheek. It is also custom to do the same again when saying good bye. It's just a friendly way of saying hello and farewell. It's not limited to the Dutch either.
Most often, guys breathe heavily when making out due to feeling aroused or extremely excited about being with you.
French kiss is regarded as the kiss for lovers. It is the most passionate and erotic kiss. You need to use your tongue for this kiss. It takes time to practice and be perfect in the French kiss, so start practicing!
-Overall, kissing is more important for women than for men in having a satisfying sexual experience. -Overall men prefer wetter kisses with more tongue than do women. -Both sexes preferred more tongue with long-term partners. -Men are more than twice as likely to have sex with a bad kisser than are women.
: the act or an instance of fluttering one's eyelashes against another person's skin. "… I've invented a new way of kissing. You do it with your eye-lashes." "I've known that for years. It's called a butterfly kiss." Evelyn Waugh.