Being In Love—And Loving Each Other
They might feel a sense of excitement. But with time, the novelty of falling in love may transition into something deeper and more familiar. Loving someone and feeling safe and fulfilled with them can be an indicator that a committed union, such as marriage, may be in the future.
Men may not be expressive, but they also have emotional needs. They look for comforting companionship, affection, emotional security, appreciation, compatibility, good level of understanding, independence of decision-making, and encouragement from their partners.
Physical attraction, sexual compatibility, empathy, and emotional connection are key to making a man fall in love with a woman.
Men prefer a woman who can stay calm and relaxed. Beauty is more than make-up and a fancy haircut. Men find women more attractive when they are neat and clean. Men find women who smell nice, who have clean hair and hydrated skin more attractive than a face perfectly covered in makeup.
Men are attracted to women who are physically attractive, and have a healthy body image. A man wants his woman to be happy with her own body, so he won't be jealous or insecure about it. He wants her to love herself as much as he does. The best way for a woman to do that is by eating well and exercising regularly.
“A woman who is consistent with her words and actions makes me very interested. It gives a sense of who you are as a person. Not only is that attractive but it gives the impression that one is mature and responsible.”
Men love women who are thoughtful, caring, loving, and kind. A woman who does little things for her man for no other reason other than that she loves him. A woman who makes him smile back whenever she smiles at him. A woman who radiates love and warmth from her heart.
Women who know what they want in a partner and know who they are as a lover are the type of women men fall in love with. “What makes a man fall in love really comes down to a deeply emotional connection. When you feel comfortable with someone who is open and vulnerable, you are more likely to fall in love.
Willard Harvey, in his book His Needs/Her Needs, states the five top needs of men in marriage. Those five needs are admiration, physical attractiveness, recreational companionship, sexual fulfillment and domestic support. The need that is often most neglected and that I want to focus on here is the need for admiration.
A high-value man wants a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and doesn't have to act differently to try to impress others. Instead, just be you. Let him see who you are on the inside and let him get to know and fall for you. Don't be afraid of your quirks or flaws because that's what makes you real.
“A man will commit when he feels a deep connection with a woman that he doesn't feel with anyone else; when he finds a lover who is also his best friend that makes him feel special and unique,” Tripp says.
In many ways, men may fall in love in a way that mimics the female experience. The early stages can involve an infatuation with someone else, which can slowly deepen into trust, compassion and deep attachment. Men may also fall in love quickly and feel a strong need for affection from their partners.
He makes time for you
No matter how busy he is, he will always find a way to fit you into his schedule. He will make time for date nights, despite having a packed work schedule. He will make time for long phone calls, even when he's exhausted from a long day. He will make time for you because you are important to him.
A guy who loves you deeply isn't afraid to show how much he loves you, even in front of others. While it's probably not heavy PDA, he'll probably hold your hand when you go out or use a cute pet name that's special to just the two of you. He'll probably also not be opposed to some good quality cuddling time.
Men want to be treated in a way that doesn't diminish their egos or make them feel inadequate. They love to be praised and acknowledged for the things they do right. Above all, they like to be reminded that they are great guys who are well-loved and appreciated. Simply put, men care about the same things as women.
Guys flirt with girls they like. He might ask you for your number, then call you the next day. He may act playful, wink, and flash a smile at you. If most of your conversations feel flirty, then odds are that he likes you as more than just a friend.
Aside from being yourself, keeping a guy hooked is all about being independent, being a fun challenge for him, standing your ground, and being supportive *among other things*. He'll definitely go crazy over you if he sees you as a woman of substance and depth rather than someone who's easy, clingy and needy.
A toned figure, nice eyes, flexible, witty, genuine smile, her own mind, great personality, pretty face, nice smell, nice butt... A 'hot' girl means the posture, the rhythmic walk and the curves of the body-the guitar shape.
If you receive compliments from people, it could be a sign that you're attractive. People tend to compliment others on things that they find appealing, and if you're getting compliments on your appearance, it could be an indication that you're attractive.